What advice would you give for this situation?

[Anonymous]

What advice would you give someone that has dated someone that bodyshamed her on the first date but I apologized? Also, becoming friends on social media noticed that he likes photos of half naked women claimed to care deeply for her. Weight comments keep coming up, but she was curvy from the first date. He knew she was curvy before they dated. What advice would you give?

[Anonymous]

On one hand just stop talking to the guy if you're offended by his comments, on the other hand if you personally feel you have weight problems and you feel this guy will help motivate you towards goals that could also be beneficial.
It really just depends on you and what you want to do :) just don't be round people that make you feel bad about yourself be around people that motivate you

[Asker]

You are absolutely right. I'm always working on improving myself mentally, spirtually, physically, and emotionally. I plan to not deal with anyone that would make me feel bad. You have a major point.

[Opinion Owner]

Well as long as this guy doesn't offend you and is encouraging you, no hurt, but ditch if it makes you feel bad.
I personally have dated girls all shapes and sizes, have no personal preference in that regard. But I have motivated someone to workout and stuff before but I never mentioned weight not really sure how she took it since she was biggish but thats not why I got her into working out with me it was more because she was sitting around home depressed with low self-esteem and self worth. So doing something to get the blood pumping is always a good way to get out of that mind set, well for me anyway

[Asker]

I agree. He also warned me that someone from his church may say something about my weight, but he invited me to go.

[Opinion Owner]

He really said that?

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like he likes you as a person and maybe is into you but doesn't really want to be seen in public with you. If that's the case leave him, you'll find someone else who appreciates you

[Opinion Owner]

I would go to his church with him meet some people and then put your hand up and ask to go up on stage and say at first your were worried about coming in here because he said you all would judge me because of my weight and made me feel terrible that I cried, but thank you all for being so nice to me it really means a lot to me there's nothing wrong with how God made me and I see that now

[Opinion Owner]

Then he will know how it feels like to be judged, he'll learn a good life lesson

[Asker]

The comments didn't stop. Comments such as asking me when my baby is due and he knew I wasn't pregnant, poking fun of my wide hips, and calling me hefty following by laughing. But he would say that he was joking

[Opinion Owner]

Pretty much should pegging this guy and laugh at him then never talk to him again lol

[Asker]

Wow. I see your point. It was devastating and embarrassing to say the least.

[dudeinohio]

I'd pretty much disassociate with him

[Asker]

Thank you for your response. I agree this would be the best thing.

[v666_]

Block his number. Leave him in the dust.

[Asker]

Yes, I agree.