He says I'm very attractive so why is he making suggestions to change my appearance?

[Anonymous]

[wtf636]

1. Most men aren't gonna tell you, you are just OK or unattractive. We don't really like to hurt a woman's feelings, and it's easy to do.

2. He does think you are attractive, but could think you would be more attractive if you did whatever he is asking for. Like wear these clothes, or cut your hair this way, etc...

Some women like beards, if I had a girlfriend ask me to grow it out, I might consider it.

I'm assuming you are dating this person. If what they are asking for isn't a big deal, do it. Why not? But if it's something that you feel like is asking too much, then don't, he already said you are attractive. So who cares.

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he wants you to mix things up a bit?