He told me that he would hug me but I'm wearing makeup up and that i shouldn't be wearing it every day. I told him that i don't mind taking it off. So i took off my make up and he said i look better like that. Okay so far nothing that bad. I get that you don't like things getting messy or that you prefer kissing clear skin. Totally fine. Then he asked me if i wear hair extensions. I said that i do and he said " why? Why are you wearing all that thing on your head" but in not such a nice way. I told him that my natural hair are long enough but curly and i do leave them naturally all the time but i personally prefer straight hair so i change them like that some times. He said "why you don't like curly hair? I like them!"Keep in mind that he approached me with my hair straight and even complimented them. Someone could assume they are extensions because there really long. Anyways i just didn't like his way because i started using extensions when i was struggling with anorexia and i was losing my hair. So I used to be so insecure with my hair and so uncomfortable when people would comment about me wearing extensions. Like mind your own business, do i have to explain you that my hair has fallen off because I'm starving myself? Now my hair are really healthy and i do like them , i just like doing my hair. I would like to know what you think about that, especially guys? I do get that you may want to see what a girl looks like completely naturally but you can ask her in a nice way without making any comments especially when you don't even know her that well. Like i just met this man and I'm supposed to change my make up, my hair... what's next? Isn't that kinda controling?
He wants me to change things in my appearance?
