What do guys really feel first when they see a fat girl? Why don't they even notice them?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Haha, nothing much actually. Probably in the first few seconds, you unconsciously don't want to have sex with her or be romantic/intimate. I won't change too much my interactions with her. I will still help her if it is possible or treat her like any other normal person except romantically.

But, the fat is less of an issue if her family members are not fat. If everyone in her family is fat, I would immediately assume it could be genetically related which would be even more troublesome than assuming it is her out of control eating habits.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Feel? I see a person, that’s it. Yes we can identify the person as overweight significantly but I won’t just flat out disrespect them. I can still talk and laugh with them as a normal person.

[Bobsyeruncle]

‘Fat’ is a subjective term.

One man’s ‘fat girl’ is another man’s Stone Fox.

Admittedly, at the extreme end of the scale there’s a point where any reasonable man will agree that a woman is morbidly obese.

When it becomes difficult for a woman to be mobile, or healthy, or able to copulate, then it’s clearly ‘too much’ and unattractive to anyone who is not deep into a fetish.

But I’ve known, and dated, and very much enjoyed fucking, women who many of my friends regarded as ‘fat’ who were (to me) voluptuous ‘10’s.

A couple of weeks ago a young woman in a fast food restaurant who was young enough to be my grand daughter flirted fairly bluntly with this old dog. (and don’t think that I wasn’t tempted)

She was what they call these days a ‘BBW’ and it took all of 3 or 4 seconds for my little mule to get nicely stiff just thinking of the possibilities. I normally slouch around in a t-shirt and sweatpants (commando) that don’t do a thing to cover even a four and a half incher like mine when it comes to the position of attention.

Fortunately I had a fanny pack on that I could pull around in front, but not before she spotted why I was doing that, smiled impishly and then patted her own fanny pack at her side and remarked how ‘handy’ they can be.

My larger point here is not that I still get the occasional pass taken at me, I’ve always had good luck with women. But that PLENTY of those passes are by the curvy girls.

I refuse to believe that buxom girls and women are disproportionately attracted to slouchy old farts with white hair, no matter HOW fit they may be, so it must be that they can sense that I regard them as sexy eye candy and respond to that in a positive way.

For most of human history women who are what passes for today as fashionably thin have been widely regarded as unhealthy and unattractive, situated precariously just one unsuccessful hunt or failed harvest away from starvation.

Give me a woman who looks like a *woman* ANY day!

[Jlegacy]

There are fats girls who are completely gorgeous... look at Adele. Hollywood have several.


If you don't like that you are fat, have a routine, change diet, employ some discipline.

[ohshee]

I look straight into their heart their eyes to see who they are and usually the first thing out of my mouth into my head is what the fuck that should be so hot if she wasn't so big

[TommyMountainFigure]

If someone is excessively overweight, the first thing I notice is they are excessively overweight. It doesn't mean I am going to be nasty to them though.

[AlexSal]

They are humans, they have feelings and deserve the same attention and opportunities as poor minded skinny h*es like you. You don't know if they have a health condition or what they are going through, let be and be you.

[Bluemax]

I had one helluva crush on a girl in my class back in college. She was overweight.

[dudeinohio]

I notice and check out *all* women. I give more visual attention to those I consider attractive... in my definition of attractive. Overweight women most certainly can classify as attractive.

[Anonymous]

What do you feel when you see a weak, skinny man? Nothing. He's just another person walking around who's of no interest to you.

[anylolone]

Same reason women don't notice 80% of men.

[apimpnamedslickback]

I feel nothing