Why is he even doing this?

[Bratz1211]

So this guy we use speak everyday was gonna meet but I kinda self sabotaged and he kinda cut me out his life, however still had me on Instagram (unfollowed me on Snapchat where we normally spoke) so after I did the right thing and gave him space! I popped up and he popped up straight away, then stopped responding to me. So after a few weeks he unfollowed me on Instagram and a week later or two followed me back on insta and wouldn’t accept my follow but he was still following me (he’s private on it) so he followed me and messaged me saying “not bored?😂😂” I was confused by this and responded with “what u on about?” And he just put “😂😂.” And then he said “what’s with the xxcch account?” I think he was talking about a fake account messaging him and he thought it was me. So I said to him “what u talking about? I really don’t understand.” Hasn’t opened that message but still follows me and watches my story so a last night I drunk texted “you’re weird😂😂.” Cause he just randomly messaged me that! Still ain’t opened it. However he still follows me! I’m just thinking why would he even still follow me if he thinks I’m that weirdo texting him with a fake account? Also why did he have to follow me to ask me that? It’s like he wants something but doesn’t talk or respond so I’m so confused!

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Also why’s he always watching story and interested about my life if he didn’t want nothing to do with me? Whole thing makes no sense.

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Guys I’m not gonna lie, I kinda miss talking to him too, and want him back! How do I make this work? Without looking desperate

[Babeknows]

I think there may still be a chance for you. He doesn’t sound completely over the entire thing and that means he’s salvageable. What you SHOULD do now, in order for you to start again, is take a step back and let him miss you. Taking your energy and removing it from it from his social media will allow him to reset his mind about you and you can start new. And he might not be done with you, because he still hasn’t met you and doesn’t know whether there could still be something, so he is ABSOLUTELY still curious etc. Good luck.

[Babeknows]

It’s salvageable**

[Bratz1211]

No I think you’re right. It’s just strange cause if I thought someone was a fake account trying to stalk me or whatever, I wouldn’t follow them or message them about it. The fact that he followed me too and still follows me and watches my story is weird and like he isn’t completely done.

[Babeknows]

No he is not done. It’s up to you now to decide

[Bratz1211]

Thanks for the advice, I’ll just take your advice now I think it’s the best one and best way to leave it and give space x

[Babeknows]

Yes trust 💖

[annyasansiri]

can you tell us what you did when you said "self sabotaged" yourself?

[Bratz1211]

We was gonna meet so he started getting blunt and I told him I didn’t wanna see him anymore and he’s playing games. So he then got annoyed and unfriended me. I just kinda snapped at him

[annyasansiri]

alright. firstly thats okay. dont pit yourself down too much.

i think you were a bit impatient with him about the meeting, and thats about it

you felt he was blunt... maybe it was a week he was busy, and he wad thinking of a day he could meet you, to give you his full time and attention.

when he folllws you/unfollowes/watch your stories/unfriend on snap... he wouldt do anything, not even unfollow if he was indifferent towards you

i would say he likes you but you were a bit impatient with him, and he took that as weird.

my advice is dont stress, give him time, explain or ask your concern. he'll come around

[Interstate]

He's just trying to start trouble. Using anything you post as ammo against you, since he thinks you blew him off intentionally, so he is doing this to get back at you. What you need to do is to block him completely on Inst, SnapChat as well as your personal phone. ANYTHING the two of you mutually share online... BLOCK HIM. Instead of just moving on, he is looking to sabotage you any way he can. Block him from every angle and he can't reach you!

[SunnySensei]

I understand you miss him Miss, but you texted him twice and he isn't responding, so just wait for sometime and let him text you back if he does, you can talk to him but talk normally don't mention that why he didn't reply and all the following and unfollowing thing. That could lead to him stop talking again.

[Bratz1211]

So u think cause I mentioned about that? That’s why he didn’t reply?

[SunnySensei]

That could be a reason Miss, he might not have an answer so now he might be feeling uncomfortable as to what to tell you.

[Bratz1211]

Yeah maybe he’s just embarrassed about accusing me of being that fake account now I don't know

[SunnySensei]

Probably.
You should relax now Miss and let him reach out.

[SunnySensei]

Thank you Miss for the MHO

[exitseven]

All this communications technology and we can't get two people to talk to each other. !
Find a card that says some funny thing on it, write something on the inside like "how's it going, ? " Stick it in an envelope and mail it to him. He will be so impressed that he will email you right away.

[Bratz1211]

It’s from his side not mines

[exitseven]

I know that but still we have a failure to communicate. I do not know a lot about Snapchat and the other sites but I think that circumventing the whole thing is a good plan of attack.

[TrueConfection]

Sounds like he's affraid you're trying to male a fool out of him. The only thing you can do in this situation is give him the upper hand and show him your cards. Tell him you miss talking to him.

[Bratz1211]

What do you mean by “male fool?” I message him and he doesn’t even respond or open it like I said on the post! But like I said I’m just thinking maybe he feels embarrassed that he blamed me for no reason

[TrueConfection]

*make a fool (not male)
I don't use those apps, but it's my understanding a person can see the message without "opening" it. Can you email him or just send a regular text?

[MM5578]

I can’t explain his behavior but I can tell you it’s not worth waiting around for this guy. Whatever his reasons for being distant are, they are his problems. I can only say that I think you should move on and find someone that is as excited to see you as you are to see him.

[BareNecessary]

Im sorry I can't really help much. I dont believe in getting advice on relationships or giving it. Like to me it's not anything to do with other people's experiences and should stay that way But I think you could easily bring something back if you tried.

[Vikkrram]

You miss him and wanna have chat wid him but don't wanna look desperate. So first choose between one of these. And secondly you made him out from your life, so he assumed that you didn't have any feelings for him .

[SnakeBoop]

Just leave. He's immature and playing a string along game.
NOTHING lasting or good will come out of this.
Find somebody else to miss talking to.

[Savage_Wisdom]

Either; he's still interested, but is cautious because of what happened last time. Or he's playing "hard-to-get" And judging by what you've said, it's working.

[JBlade]

Major miscommunications going on here. Anyone who tries to figure this out is crazy. Just say your piece and stop being involved.

[Bratz1211]

Or do u think he’s just embarrassed about blaming me? That’s why he doesn’t know what to say?

[Elliegirl]

It sounds to me like he likes you, but he’s playing games with you trying to get you to chase him. Or maybe he’s just a huge jerk.

[DonkeyDan]

Sounds like a little boy playing stupid games. Move on forget about him and find someone who's not a total dick.

[Browneye57]

You're trying to make online virtual life real life. It's just not. You have to actually DATE - as in spend quality time together IRL, face to face. Right now ya got nuthin'.

[elizamichale1]

seems like he is interested in you but also trying to play games
so i think its better if you move on darling

[spartan55]

You are being ridiculous, thinking all that shit on stupid Instagram means anything.

[MrKinktastic]

I think maybe he’s just awkward and there’s been a miscommunication?

[DaveToo]

Why do we chase after something or someone we can't have? I learned a long time ago that sometimes there are people that just aren't worth the hassle.

[NYCQuestions1976]

You need to move on. You're completely wasting your time.

[Jamie05rhs]

Omg. You're both so fucking immature. Let me just go kill myself now.

[Bratz1211]

How’s it me? It’s him

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay; fair enough. You're right. I apologize.

[Backspin2]

He's playing mind games. Gotta let this one go, no matter how much it hurts.

[AdithyaR]

I'm not sure but I don't get good vibes from this dude. He's sus.

[Twalli]

Ask if he wants to try talking with you again. Apologize for whatever you did wrong.

[Bratz1211]

How many times will I triple text him? That’s just coming across desperate now 😩

[Twalli]

I didn't say do it three times.

[Bratz1211]

Or do u think he’s just embarrassed of replying cause he got the wrong person that thought was cat fishing him?