My work friend and crush said I am subservient. What does it mean if a man calls a woman that?

[Anonymous]

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I get so nervous around him now. I have known him about a year though.

[Kkaos]

It means they see you as not very confident and/or assertive. But it can also depend on the context as well. Being submissive can have a lot of sexual connotations to it. So yeah, depends on context and the nature of the conversation when he said it.

[Asker]

He said I am subservient at work. He doesn't know me anywhere else. It just caught be off guard to be called that strong word. Not saying i am offended. Its just nobody really uses it to describe anyone else.

[Majeston]

Maybe he used a stronger word than he intended? because that is a weird one. If we take it straight up he either meant:

1—Would you like to have sex?
or;
2—You should stand up for yourself more.

[Asker]

How does You are subservient translate to Bump Uglies with me? Lmao!

[Majeston]

Just... Why would someone say that? It's a hell of a weird thing to say, like, that's an evocative word. He basically said 'you do what you're told'. So either he basically called you a doormat or said something suggestive, right?

[Asker]

Who knows. he's a massive flirt though so maybe i shouldn't take his words seriously.

[Iron_Man]

It means that you aim to please and I like that

[Anonymous]

He said you are submissive which is good

[Anonymous]

Submissive. An underling. A follower.