Am I gold digger if I won't date my poor boyfriend because my rich parents don't like him?

[Anonymous]

I don't want them to disown me so I am gold digger for leaving my poor boyfriend?

Yes you are

No

[Jake99999]

If you have rich parents, you don't need money right? A gold digger is someone who only wants to be with someone for their money. Clearly you like a guy who is not rich, so that does not make you a gold digger. You would be a gold digger if you dumped him for someone else who had a lot more money, and that was the main reason.

As to your parents, parents can dislike someone for a lot of reasons. Are you sure they dislike him because he is not rich, or are there some other factors at play? At the end of the day, how much does your parents approval matter to you? Are they really going to disown you for dating a guy who is not rich? That sounds extreme. How much control over your life are you going to let your parents have, just based on their money? You are over 18, right? You are an adult.

If you are dumping this guy because your parents want him to be wealthy, and you are going along with that... does that feel right to you? Are you willing to make how much money a guy has, the main factor in choosing someone? If that is the case, then you ARE a gold digger.

[magiusX26]

either/and type of thing here. only other option is it shows lack of indipendant character/too controled by your patents. you are an adult and should find a way to respectfully stand up to your parents while living your life with or without them. parents who pull this crap have a tendancy to be manipulative people by the way.

[CordetteMonet]

No, I don't think that you are a gold digger. It's reasonable that you don't want them to disown you. But are you sure? Your parents shouldn't have any form of influence on your dating life. It's not like it affects them. Your parents sound like snobs.

[MTC29]

Gold diggers are women who want to marry wealthy men for the man's money. Based on your own narrative, where is the link between yourself and a gold digger?

[Browneye57]

No girl worth her salt wants a dead broke guy that can't support and entertain her and the 84 children she wants to have with him.
You must have that lost puppy dog syndrome - where you think you can fix a man with your golden vagina. FAIL.

[TonyV]

Your dating for money. . . Or at least letting money dictate who you date, sounds kind of gold digger-ish to me.

[Xoirwinkan]

If you are doing it for your parents you are technically not a gold digger. Many people have strong family pressures/ties that mean a lot. If you loved him it was not moral, however.

[Anonymous]

I think your parents are gold diggers. :D Why do they care if you boyfriend has money or not? lol

[Asker]

It is bad for their status

[Opinion Owner]

It's 21. century, who cares? It is such an old-fashioned mindset. My parents are quite rich as well, but as long as their children are happy, they do not mind.

[Jake99999]

Ugh, you are going to run your life based on your parents superficial concern about their status... that is toxic. Stand up for yourself and be an adult. Live your own life.

[Jake99999]

Your parents should love you and support you and want you to be happy. You are not just an accessory.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think that exactly qualifies as being a Golddigger , That’s because your family want to prove

[Anonymous]

No, your parents are elitist snobs; and by going along with their wishes, you are, to a certain extent, one as well.

[Anonymous]

Interesting question. If you got sick and he left you is that makes him bad person?

[Jamie05rhs]

You are not a gold-digger, but you are a child.

[Archerer]

I mean, it looks that way at least a little...

[Youdumbeotch]

I think you’re just braindead

[disgustingweebtrash]

Yes you are