Do men point put flaws and try to make me insecure because it deflects from the fact all they want is to use me for sex?

[Ggyredcvh]

They flirt even while taken. And once they realize i won't give them the free fornication they want they start to insult me and disrespect me like a 4 year old manchild.

[AmandaYVR]

If it's after you reject their advances, then it's an aggressive cover up for them feeling insecure and hurt. Typical male coping mechanism. Go hard, get aggressive, to deal with their own pain.
(This is all presuming you are kind and polite about how you say 'no.' If you're rude, they'll be rude back.)

[Anonymous]

Those are very childish attitudes i don’t what is he up to but who flirts even he or she is taken is dishonored.

[Ggyredcvh]

Manchildren

[MrNamara]

People who like using others do so by using others' flaws and insecurities. This is manipulation.

[Ggyredcvh]

Do they do it purposefully?

[MrNamara]

Out of narcissism more likely

[MrCommodore]

Yes they probably do it when they realise you aren't putting out for them.

[Anonymous]

A guy I knew who used to flirt with a bunch of women, including me, made silly remarks making fun of me. "You look like you just woke up." "You look done with life." Other days, he was heavily flirting. I think players do this to gauge your reaction

[MrNamara]

I believe what she says is something different. More likely about negative reactions people give when they don't get what they want.

[Ggyredcvh]

It seems like if we react or value the positive opinions of others, to the same degree we are hurt by their negative opinions.