How do I cope with being used by men for ego boost?

[Heknowsililejim]

I think I have Asperger’s. Online tests always say I very likely do. I’m socially retarded and not afraid to admit it. So anyway men at my jobs always end up flirting with me and I fall for it and like them and they can tell I do. I smile hard blush etc stare etc giggle laugh etc. I don’t know how to do games on guys and I’m not really into flirting they just keep flirting to me and I fall for it. I’m too naive trusting and dumb. Pls help me. Any questions just ask

[D_Bone_Steak]

That's really hard to give advice to TBH... I mean, you got to really have some heavy social skills not to get sucked into the used car salesman tactics we dudes use on chicks. Chicks that have a sort of mental problem... from my experience... are always victims to some of the loserist loser type of dudes you could think of. In the military any new girl would have us taking bets on how long it would take her to cheat on the guy back home (homeport was in Japan). It always happened, it's just guessing the amount of time it's going to take. If they seemed on the denser side of things, my bet always went on less than a month. No offense but they're just suckers for a guy's bullshit games. They end up with a train of dudes just trying to get her panties off. I remember I met up with one... she was like just a E-3 and I couldn't even really talk to her there in the street about duty the next night because dudes were just on her like white on rice. They would't leave her alone at all. It was like that for all of them too. Yes... even the butt ugly ones.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I had rules... no American or Navy chicks. I was strictly only down for Japanese and the Philipinas off base. That made me this sort of "safe guy" that chicks would befriend. So I really got to see it from their perspective as well. But yeah I was still a dickhead and would place bets on how long it would take them to cheat. I usually won. I was sort of famous for guessing how long it would take.

[Heknowsililejim]

Yeah and I took Asperger’s tests online for free and they always say I very likely or likely have it. Did you bet on who would have sex or just kissing? I don’t have premarital sex. So if that’s what men tend to bet on they would have to lie about it to win that bet because it’s not gonna happen.

[D_Bone_Steak]

We placed bets on fucking... it never stops at just kissing 😂

[Heknowsililejim]

I don’t kiss boys I’m not retarded

[Heknowsililejim]

Clearly I’m much smarter than you men think ! ;) I feel safer now

[D_Bone_Steak]

Well... I'm glad I could help 😂

[SlothySlob]

Did talk to a medical professional about your concern about having ass burgers?
Do you do anything more with these guys, or does it stop at workplace flirting?

[Heknowsililejim]

It stops at workplace flirting. They never wanna seriously ask me out. At most they ask me to go to strip coins or clubbing or to the park at 12 midnight just s to pod stuff that obviously no smart girl is gonna say yes to. One old man did ask me to lunch sorta but it was so random and I just didn’t feel comfortable so I said no. But yeah overall I have never met up with a guy outside work and they never want to get my number and text or call either so no chance for getting my picture either. I’ve been blessed in that regard but my heart hurts and I’ve cried hard and it has hurt really bad many times. A lot of them have also harassed and bullied me too.

[Heknowsililejim]

Some typos were there sorry. Let me know if anything I said was unclear.

[SlothySlob]

Don't worry about the typos, I do them constantly. The only thing I'd like to ask is, you said you've been blessed with that. What might that be?

[Anonymous]

You can never trust men. Be on your guard at all times.

[Heknowsililejim]

I hate that. I wanna relax. I wanna escape life because of this. How can I get married if I never relax and trust a man

[spartan55]

Horrible advice.

[Anonymous]

just keep your guard up more

[Heknowsililejim]

Thanks. Any help with that?

[Opinion Owner]

yeah be logical use your head instead of your heart take time to evaluate each situation rationally rather than emotionally

[Heknowsililejim]

I appreciate you thank you so much.

[Opinion Owner]

wow thank you it's been a really long time since someone said they appreciated me

[Heknowsililejim]

I am happy to done that for you :)

[Iron_Man]

Find a church guy

[Heknowsililejim]

If you are Christian pls pray for me to find one

[Iron_Man]

I will

[Heknowsililejim]

Thank you

[Iron_Man]

You are very welcome

[serious_miss419]

Learn some boundaries