I told a guy I’m in a stituationship I love him, how do I stop feeling this way?

[Anonymous]

I told a guy I’m in a stituationship of over a year and a half I love him. Because he was quiet, I asked him how does he feel about that. Was he mad or happy about it, he just neither. I felt confused. Does that mean he doesn’t care about me and what I’m feeling.

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A situationship is sought of a step up from friends with benefits. You do couple stuff without it being official. He was quiet after I confessed my feelings. I asked what did he think, he said that he was surprised and if it was too soon. I said there isn’t a definite time frame for everyone to fall in love and I didn’t expect him to. It back. I asked hire her felt when I said it, was he mad or happy, he replied neither.

[Anonymous]

He’s probably shocked and needs some time to process what happened. I suggest you give him space to think it over then ask him again about his feelings. If he seems avoidant then there’s your answer (he doesn’t feel the same way but might still want u around without the commitment)

[spartan55]

Wtf is a situationship? You didn't say how he responded... which is sort of important.

[Asker]

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A situationship is sought of a step up from friends with benefits. You do couple stuff without it being official. He was quiet after I confessed my feelings. I asked what did he think, he said that he was surprised and if it was too soon. I said there isn’t a definite time frame for everyone to fall in love and I didn’t expect him to. It back. I asked hire her felt when I said it, was he mad or happy, he replied neither.

[spartan55]

In other words, he still wants to bang other girls... why are in a situationship anyway?

[Asker]

I got out a long toxic relationship and just wanted to have sex without any ties. I thought it would be just have sex a cooler of times but it didn’t turn out that way. Long story short, we got to know each other and my feelings begin to change. I didn’t know that he was sooo friggin awesome.

[spartan55]

"but it didn't turn out that way"
It never does. Now you are in a position where the feelings aren't reciprocated.

[Asker]

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