Do some men ever use seggs as a way to bond with someone they like?

[Anonymous]

just wondering if some guys do this, is it always just seggs or is there more to it then that depending on how you feel about a person?

[MrOracle]

One of the many differences between men and women is that women often fall for a guy over time - she may hate a guy initially and grow to love him. Men rarely do this - instead, men mostly know if they have romantic interest in a woman VERY quickly, usually after his first significant exposure to her. This also means that men know very quickly if they DON'T have feelings for her - and if he doesn't have them from the beginning, the chances of developing those feelings for her are very, very small - EVEN if they have sex.

Understanding that, yes, if a man has feelings for a girl, having sex with her will often intensify or deepen his feelings for her - but those feelings had to exist in the first place. Much like watering a seed and having it grow, if there was no seed in the soil, you can water all you like, and you're just making mud where no plant is going to grow.

[Anonymous]

No. Oxytocin only gets released in small amounts in men during orgasm and testosterone nullifies its affects.

Unlike women who get it during foreplay, sex, and orgasm and estrogen enhances it.

[spartan55]

Wth are seggs?

[Asker]

Sex...

[spartan55]

Why didn't you just write sex then?
Personally I can develop a bond, but it isn't real significant until sex happens.