Do all men get tougne tied when they like someone?

[Monalisa77]

Yes

No

[MisterWack]

From experience, yes once you see a nice attractive woman… It is hard to get the words out lol.
I’ve seen countless women act the same way towards a crush.

We’re only human after all.

[Monalisa77]

True but for me i dont say much. I can't tell if its just fiction where men get confused when theyre talking lol

[MisterWack]

@Monalisa77 🤣, I think it depends on the person no doubt though we do get that way from time to time…

[Sharkstealth]

I'm like a deer in the headlights. I have to take a breath and psych myself up with a plan before I can communicate a charming interaction. If it's a customer service interaction it could take a while because I don't see them everyday so when I do it's like another bright light to the face again.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Only young inexperienced men. I don't care how much I like a woman I know likely the feeling is not mutual. Ergo I never worry about blowing it by saying something wrong because experienced men know her mind is made up 30 seconds into meeting her.

[Monalisa77]

How do they know the woman is experienced?

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean women? I said men not women. If a woman is over 30 she's experienced. If a woman is over 25 she's likely experienced. Woman have 🍆's constantly thrown at them. It's not a matter of IF she's experienced. At certain ages it's a virtual lock. You think a guy is going to find a woman who's a 40 year old virgin? Highly, highly unlikely.

[Monalisa77]

Im over 30 n never had a boyfriend lol

[Opinion Owner]

OK, what does that have to with anything. You've had 🍆's thrown at you. Who said anything about boyfriend's?

[Monalisa77]

No i really haven't. I've had a couple of men staring n turning their heads but thats about it

[Monalisa77]

N when i tell people about this they claim i read too much into it😂so there u go

[Opinion Owner]

So men stare at you and then you stonewall them. That or you're completely socially retarded. Or that you're a recluse. That's really the ONLY way this happens. Because even if you were unattractive I promise you, even the those women still get 🍆's thrown at them.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm guessing you're a recluse.

[Monalisa77]

No i feel like theyre either doing it as a wind up or i really have read too much into it. I get too shy and too nervous to talk to them.. Its only been a few.. Anytime i have put myself forward for someone theyve knocked me. Baxk and ignored or blocked me.

[Monalisa77]

I ended up really feeling like i connexted with this guy i sat to on the train last week, by the end i felt him staring but i was actually too shy to ask if he wanted to swap socials. Because i said i had Instagram and he didn't ask if he could follow me, but then i didn't realise till after i actually liked him (he had a beard ehich i dont usually go for) I've tried to find him online but with no luck. I can't go out to meet anyone and i have tried

[Monalisa77]

And nope. Im very sociable and try n go out as much as i can. But other people hold me back

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, you're very sociable, you're just not sociable. Do you hear yourself. Do you think it's easy for men to talk to women? Or are you one of these women that think men do not feel rejection. Guys give women who give them attention. Sorry hun, you want something you have to risk something. So I was right you are a recluse. You just agree with my definition of that. A social recluse.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't agree*

[Opinion Owner]

Don't think I'm attacking you here either. I'm trying to help you work through your problem.

[Opinion Owner]

Part of you problem I think is you really don't see yourself.

[Monalisa77]

I tried to make an effortt o talk to a guy at Christmas but it didn't work iut. My mum and brother said it was weong to go up to a guy in w pub

[Opinion Owner]

That's going to happen. If it makes you feel any better statistically speaking it's going to happen 10tumes more to men. Sorry you're not going to get a lot of sympathy here.
All you can do is your recon. Maybe smile at him to let him know you notice him (not necessarily interested) then see how he responds. I mean it's your fault if you're flat approaching guys above your weight class. Are you doing that? I mean I think Scarlet Johansson is attractive. But I'm also smart enough to know she's never give me the time if day.😆

[Monalisa77]

He wasn't in my eye shot. My dad walked in, it was nearly impossible. Do u want me to literally jump on them? I would get arrested. See my latest post about my mum

[Monalisa77]

I don't have that experience to know how to approach someone. I put myself forward for a guy in work and he blocked me. One time i really liked someone he turned out to be gay, so can u not see i have low self esteem issues? Im worried they will call me ugly etc my own family does it, my mum says ill never get married

[Opinion Owner]

No I expect you to reads the signs and act accordingly. Very few women are undateable. But there are plenty of women that don't accept where they're ranked and don't want to put forth the necessary effort to achieve thier goals.

[Monalisa77]

And peopple tell me im over reacting to these signs. My cousin even said ill never get close to anyone. She told me there's no way this guy liked me, that he was just touchy feely in general despite him staring.

[Monalisa77]

I used to get laughed at by the boys in college. And bullied in school even by people who i thought were my friends. Most people in general dont go out of their way to talk to me so its y i find it hard to believe y would a guy like me if most people dont

[Opinion Owner]

Well that's your biggest problem then. You need to start there. No one is going to value you if you don't first value yourself.
I'll flat out tell you not many women are attracted to me. But I know I'm a worthwhile guy. You can't let other peoples rejection of you diminish your view of yourself. You're never going to reach a point in life where there won't be rejection. Even when you're in a relationship sometimes. If you're not ready for that maybe you should just remain single.
You have to remind yourself when someone rejects you they're not rejecting you. They're simply rejecting THIER perception of you. And that perception can be WAY OFF base.

[Makeushiver]

It's not uncommon but its been awhile since I've felt that way
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[Ladsin2]

At first yes. Men who have success become more confident and less tongue tied. Men who are rejected are likely to maintain.

[Goahead76]

No, not at all. Usually I'm more focused on if they're funny or interesting to talk to.

[NathanDavis]

not usually, no

[DrPepper12]

Like a woman? No. Infatuation? Yes.

[Rapport]

I get tongue tied regardless.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope not me I'm not shy at all

[jahaims]

Obviously not

[Monalisa77]

i wouldn't know cos noone has confessed to liking me lol

[Anonymous]

It can happen!

[LiamJHayden]

Nope.