Do guys usually cuddle their "booty" call?

[Anonymous]

A guy I've been seeing on and off for two years has recently cam back in my life it was meant to be a "booty" call from what I could gather he says he doesn't want a girlfriend which was fine by me but after the initial deed is done he alwayss cuddles me until the morning stays the whole night and sometimes into the afternoon I can't turn over without him having to snuggle up to me in some way I was getting into bed the other night and he gave me this look I'd never seen before when I said what? He started smiling and singing a sweet song to me this whole thing confuses me is he getting feelings for me or am I just reading to much into it?

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I should say that when I've referred to it as a booty call he gets all offended I don't know what he actually wants?

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Hmm I spoke to his friend who seems astounded that he actually stays the entire night apparently with other girls he doesn't? Maybe am just thinking to much about it?

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I don't think he sleeps with tons where in a close group so I would find out hi friend was talking about when we were "off" so to speak

[vmw2008]

It's a myth that guys don't want/need to cuddle or have that emotional connection. Sure, maybe with a one night stand who he's never going to see again he won't hang around, but with a consistent girl he will. It does not mean he wants a relationship with you though. It may sound confusing, but like sex he's getting some of his needs fulfilled by doing this. However, because he's kept it uncommitted, he also gets to hook up with other girls, and see you only when it's convenient for him. It's important to look at the big picture with things like this. If he was in love and ready for commitment, he'd be committed to you. The way he's acting with you is not abnormal for a friends with benefits. Men crave the intimacy parts as well, especially since they can't let out that emotional side with most people in their lives like we can.

[Belgie]

If he's a decent guy, he knows how much that sort of thing matters to a girl. Almost as much as orgasm and foreplay, for some girls.

It doesn't *necessarily* mean anything.

I'm quite touchy feely even to my one-night stands, right up until the moment they leave by the front door anyway. Or I do.

Just because we don't want a girlfriend, doesn't mean we have to treat all girls like sh*t.

[Anonymous]

You're not turned off by the fact that he sleeps with tons of girls and you're just another one on his list? I know it's just a one night stand but still.

[Anonymous]

That's probably how he treats all the girls he's with. It sounds like you have a thing for him though. Why don't you flirt with him and see if he can be more than a booty call?