I used to talk to this guy for about a month, in text and in person but then he ghosted me, but in person is still friendly, why?

[Anonymous]

I’ve known him for few months but we became friends like two months ago. He got what he wanted from me and then just stopped texting me or sending snaps like he used to, I was cold to him and he asked if I’m okay, he keeps acting dumb but I don't know if he knows what he did wrong or he’s actually clueless, but he keeps talking to me like nothing happened, what should I do? I actually liked talking to him, he keeps viewing my stories on social media but doesn’t text or call.

[FlutteringFeelings]

It’s a quest. If his goal was to ‘get what he wanted’ then he’s going to get bored and move onto the next. I wouldn’t spend time on this guy because you already explained the changes in his behavior. In the beginning, he was invested and now he’s not after getting what he wanted to his attention is elsewhere now. You may know the good ol’ saying, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.”

[Asker]

The thing is he was dating this girl for 4 years and whenever he flirts with girls or something he says they’re on a break. When she’s with him, he doesn’t really talk to me but he does stare a lot. But when she’s gone, he starts talking to me again like wtf

[Wonderlady]

He just wanted what he got and for the sake of him saving face still talkes when it seems forced or unavoidable. Block him and move on. He knows what he did he's hoping you don't figure it out and just move on.

[Asker]

Yeah possibly. But he could easily avoid me, he’s not forced to talk to me, but he still does. I was even on a call with my friend and he was in the same room and out of all the places to sit, he sits in a couch right infront of me. It’s like he was trying to get my attention it was so obvious.

[Asker]

And even though I was dry to him, all he said was “are you okay?”, and he wasn’t being cold to me back, he still said bye in the end.

[Iron_Man]

Weird behavior MoveOn probably

[In_Trance]

He got a better offer

[Avicenna]

Ask him

[Asker]

I wanna confront him so bad but I feel like he’s not worth it. Like seriously he’s confusing me.

[888theGreat]

What did he get?

[Asker]

He got my nudes

[888theGreat]

maybe that scared him away

[Asker]

No he asked for it. At first I said no, but then I sent because it was on snap and he has no proof, plus I didn’t show my face. He even sent me his dick🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️. But the good thing is he kept it a secret. But still after that happened, he stopped texting.