Do guys contact if they care or do they wait for the girl to do it?

[Anonymous]

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Just curious because I like this guy and I’ve been doing the no-contact thing and since then we haven’t talked in 3-4 days

[GoldenAxer]

I started doing contact even if I don't care that much just out of politeness and initiative. If she thinks I'm a desperate loser for doing so, she misjudged me and I'm not into dating girls who make a habit of misjudging me.

[GoldenAxer]

So after the first date, I made it a habit to send her a message like, "I had a great time with you. Have a nice night!" Then on next day, I'd send her a message like, "I wanna go to this restaurant after work. Let's go together if you can!"

[boggboss]

Seems like you are both being childish and playing games

[Asker]

Or either it’s one sided but I don’t see how he doesn’t see that we connect well on a different level.. mentally I’m talking bout

[boggboss]

Vutbhow is it 1 sided if you are both being the same thing

[Asker]

I think I’m just some girl he talks to. I don’t think he sees anything special in me

[boggboss]

And why do u think that

[Asker]

Because he doesn’t initiate and seems to treat me like he treats all of the other girls he talks to. He’s just one of those guys that tries to be nice to everyone

[boggboss]

Then yeah maybe he is not intrested

[VikingWarLord]

Older guys will initiate and dominate everything, you're dealing with boys

[Anonymous]

I usually wait for the girl. But I have autism.