He claims I misunderstood his intentions that he was just trying to be sweet is that true?

[Skarletjonancy]

Ok So I was talking to this guy and He would tell me I'm pretty and that he thinks my eyes are pretty. he would text me and send voice recordings and we would call each other and be in the phone for an hour. And he said sexual things to me. And he gave me pet names. So when I told him I was growing attached to him then he says that he doesn't like me in a romantic way. he didn't mean to lead me on. He said he's sweet to me cause I'm a good person. He hopes that I'm ok just being friends. So what were his intentions what was he being honest that he didn't mean to lead me on?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

He was trying to be sweet? Yeah no, more like when he thought you were okay with casual flirting, sexting, probably going out would lead to casual sex/friend with benefits it was all good, but the minute you mentioned becoming attached, he wants to say he wasn't trying to lead you on? Just be friends? Just friends shouldn't be talking sexual to one another... Don't fall for this guy's bullshit... Yeah there seems to be more and more guys that try to get women to accept that friends with benefits crap, but there's also decent guys that really want a serious relationship, why maybe take more time before things get to a sexual point to know what kind of guy you're dealing with... And if this was someone you met online, that would be another red flag to me..
More and more people are using the internet to sext/flirt when they feel bored or lonely and don't really care if they really hurt someone in the process...
Even if it's harder, sticking to meeting/dating people you've actually met in real life and spent real in person time with is so much better.

[btbc92]

Sexual things are sweet? Please let that guy go. No, he wants to use you for friends with benefits. That's all. He was never looking for anything serious.

[ohshee]

In all your Communications I'm sure he started reading you pretty well pretty fast it might start it out the way you think it did but once you got to know you and found out how toxic you are he said I don't want any part of this let me give you some advice just because you think something does it mean you're right. Just because you think something doesn't mean you can put down on paper end call called somebody something just because of something that you misread you miss understood not really I think you're just a toxic person that likes to start problems it's who you are you're very miserable and happy person I think that guy found this out he said well I have nothing I want nothing to do with her

[Anonymous]

The way he deals with you is either too innocent / serious, or just empty and lusty / looking for sex.

Not moderate or normal. Too close / weird to say he's just cheering you up as a friend. Sorry to say, I suspect he's just looking for sex.
Easist thing to do, keep distance.. be very distant for now.

It should be easier to read him when he approaches again if he does. At least we can suspect how he'll react depending on which mindset of an approach and topics he chooses.
Lol, we still may be wrong unless he does something obvious that reflects his intents.

[PenkWing]

Just an added opinion, because it could be this or many other things. Maybe he wanted to pump his ego by testing if he could get you interested, and once you did he had achieved his goal and was done.

I cannot say this is what happened to you. Maybe he’s just a clumsy communicator and he was actually just trying to be nice. In that case he’d better learn not to play with other people’s feelings and not to push it with sexual advances.

[Anonymous]

if you believe his bullshit i got a bridge in california i'd like to sell you for 5 million dollars and a handful of magic beans for 10 million dollars more.
he only said that bullshit to cover his own ass. he at first did mean what he said but you showed him a picture of yourself which he wasn't attracted to so to cover his own ass he said that to you after he saw your picture and didn't like it. my guess is you been talking to this guy for about 3 months or less

[Skarletjonancy]

I did live streams with him then after we started talking

[bowenw]

It sounds like he was more serious than he's admitting. He may have found someone else or has changed his mind.

[Skarletjonancy]

Why did he change his mind?

[Skarletjonancy]

Do you think later he might and try and sneak that flirting etc later on?

[bowenw]

Only he knows how he feels about you. As he got to know you he may have discovered something about you he feels makes the two of you incompatible for a serious relationship such as religious or political differences. He may also have strict parents that he feels would not approve of you. You could try asking him to be brutally honest with you and tell you why he treats you different now than he did before.

[Skarletjonancy]

He told me today that it was just harmless flirting just for fun and it meant nothing and that he hooks up with friends just for fun. I never slept with him though.

[bowenw]

Now you know, but I still think there's a chance he has stronger feelings for you than he's admitting.

[jasco]

He may have thought you were feeling down or something or he just wanted to be nice

[spartan55]

Lol, dude is so full of shit.

[Skarletjonancy]

Explain how

[spartan55]

He was saying what you wanted to hear in order to fuck.

[In_Trance]

Lol. He just wants to smash