I can relate. I hate when I message with a woman and there's a delay between every text because she's having 3 different conversations with 3 different guys. I used to do that with women, but I quit because it's rude, selfish and exhausting to try to date multiple people at once.
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How long do you wait before getting upset like this? The whole point of texting is that the message stays there waiting to be read. People are not under any obligation to respond right away, just when its convient for them.
So many people seem to think that just because you send someone a message they are supposed to send one back immediately? I dont get that. If you want an immediate response then call them.
I find this weird too. A girl would text me about a thing and then take 6 hours to respond. Like... do you want to have a conversation or not?
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What are you? In middle school? You have to understand that they are probably busy working, school, hobbies, friends, and even if they aren’t doing any of those things it’s really weird if a guy would always respond to text within like 10 minutes or 30 minutes? If you can’t be understanding in the talking stage why are you even trying to start something with this guy? You should probably be working on your empathy and sympathy? Or doing something to improve yourself
Why do automatically assume because he isn't answering you he is texting with 'other bitches'? You girls and stupid fucking texting.
I juat imagine they're playing games at the same time, lmao.
My 'policy' is to respond as if I won't get a response, then be ecstatic when she DOES respond!
Hace you you tell him that you want tl
ne kept in the. Loop of him being busy to tell youit's probably who returned the message first. if so once they read you're reply you may hear back
Because you're just an option to him
I think you have a selfconfidence problem.
This happens to me every time I match on tinder
It bothers me
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