What a player does if he likes you?

[Anonymous]

Come on, I want all your opinions here! :)
What players do when they secretly like a girl? How do they approach her? What they do online?
Shoot me with examples :)
Thank you!

[Gwenhwyfar]

Hit on them. But this rarely happens cause they’re players. And even when it does you can’t tell the difference between that and their normal behavior. Trust me girl. He most likely does not secretly like you.

[Asker]

I can see him doing awkward things around me, tho. Some of them are probably his typical things, but they seem so funny to me :D

[Gwenhwyfar]

He’s faking it to get you to think he secretly likes you. Players are good at that.

[Asker]

Pff.. I don't think that's the case. For eg., I talk to a friend of his, he comes and greets him (it's obvious that he saw me) and then turns to me, acts surprised and greets me warmly.
It was so stupid :D And I know he can do better as a player.
Why's the effort if he didn't like me?

[Gwenhwyfar]

He’s doing “awkward” stuff to convince you he secretly likes you. Players will do anything to get a girl in bed. Including most commonly convincing her they really like her.

[Gwenhwyfar]

There’s not an awkward bone in his body

[Asker]

His tactics on me are very stupid.. I'm really amused by his effort to play me :D
If they work on other girls, they must be pretty stupid girls.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Do you like him back if he likes you? If so WHY?

[Asker]

I wouldn't say I do. I like his mind, he's a smart man and we can have very deep talks. But since I see these lame tactics of his, I just can't take him seriously.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Ohhhhhhh

He’s not a player

He’s a wannabe player

Maybe he does like you

[Asker]

Gosh, he has a GREAAAAT success with girls, I mean.. Enormous success.. and I know his attitude with other girls (mainly naive ones), it fits to the player term. But I guess that I'm just not that naive.
And I don't get why would he put that effort on me, if he's not interested.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Because players love a challenge! Trust me girl he does not like you. He wants to make you think he likes you so he can fuck and lick you and move on. Good news is if he’s not just a wannabe he’s probably pretty good in bed. Speaking from personal experience.

[Asker]

Haha, I'm sure he is. You can tell by the way he moves. But all the diseases he can spread.. blah :)) not interested.
I actually don't think I'm his type, I know I'm not. Which makes me wonder why's the effort even more.

[Gwenhwyfar]

He thinks he can get you and he likes the challenge. But glad to hear you’re not fooled.

[Asker]

Such banal mindset they have..

[Gwenhwyfar]

Exactly

[yiafgk]

If you want the honest truth, a player approaches all women the same. They act the same and nothing really changes about them when they talk to women, especially since they have that confidence of having multiple women in their social circle, why the fuck should they care about you? They might treat you differently based on your guys personality and the way you guys vibe and if you’re really beautiful or not but all of these is not predictable because this world is full of such different people

[Asker]

Don't you think that they are loosing their confidence when they have to perform their player stuff on someone they really like? I mean, they're not machines :)

[PatrickFusion]

A player is just gonna cheat on you I imagine. He keeps his options open.

[Asker]

Yes, but how they start get involved in a relationship? It's interesting how they act if showing interest is a "No" for them.

[PatrickFusion]

They tell you what you want to hear, and then they tell the same things to other women.
They don't trust women, they don't want to get hurt or trapped or attached.
They play the game and they get what they want.

[Asker]

They don't trust women and need their approval at the same time?

[PatrickFusion]

Players are kind of selfish and they have an ego. They mostly want sex and to use people. If they could they would have a harem of women.

[tatianamay]

A player plays with women's hearts. He keeps his options open and approaches all girls the same. A player can never change as long as he doesn't change himself. No woman can ever make a player settle down as long as he wants to settle down himself. You're gonna end up with a broken heart with mascara smeared eyes if you start dating him. Remember, he's called a player for a reason. You call him a player yourself. A player 'likes' all women. That's the bitter truth. Do not entertain his moves.

[Asker]

Don't you think that they are loosing their confidence when they have to perform their player stuff on someone they really like? I mean, they're not machines :)

[pillingsadness]

They smooth talk to her, compliment her and make her believe she's special

[Gwenhwyfar]

Exactly!

[Iron_Man]

Nothing they just go up and talk to her and keep the other girls a secret I guess