Why does this guy take hours/days to text me back?

[Anonymous]

But then when I pull away he starts acting interested again and even double messaging me

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[Slithers]

We don't know really because we don't know what you are sending him as a text. Are you asking him a question? Are you being flirtatious? Are you just sending some banal text checking in?

You want texts back quickly, start flirting with him. Seduce him. Some women wonder why charming men don't engage with them, it's usually because you don't use any charm at all and respond with Emojis instead of content. Yeah cool I made you blush, but how are we going to keep the banter going if the only thing you send back is blushy face. The excitement is completely one sided. The guy gets bored and flirts with someone else who responds with wit.

As a guy, if we are single, we are probably talking to several women. The ones we are really hammering are the ones who put effort in being seductive, playing the game, and keeping us excited. It's no different than you.

[Hairylegs222]

That's too long of gaps to be interested in someone in my opinion. Recommend calling him out on it by asking him why is he taking so long to get back to your texts. I'm upfront about that to women so they know ahead of time. My range for her response times I'm comfortable with. 24hrs max to respond back to me or I'll call her out on it. If she keeps doing it then I don't text anymore eventually.

[Toldol2]

He likes you but can’t commit to a relationship. Tell him that you prefer consistency and let him deal with his Life