What makes guys hard to let go of a woman?

[Anonymous]

[FTnWo]

20 years of loving her more then anything in the world and trying to convince her that through my eyes she iwas the most beautiful woman in the world just to have her betray me in different ways with different guys and being disrespected by her to the point where I truly felt she hated me amd then finally being able to convince myself that she will never love me the way I love her and calling it quits and telling her I'm done with her and her bullshit, and then she cries and cries and begs me to come back and then she actually appears to be really trying and so Loving and caring and returning the love I give her like ten fold... and that's because I felt bad and decided to stay together with her but have a hard time loving her the way I did before because she broke that trust and when it was beginning to really come back she did it again, in the meantime I work with a female that so different then I am that it's kind of crazy because I am extremely infatuated by her but not sure if it's just because she Is extremely attractive physically or because she is such a good person that is opposite of what the wife was, we don't flirt or hit on each other as we are both currently married and I remain faithful but I got the since that the work partner is tired of being treated like shit by her husband and waiting for me to leave my wife because we are into eachother, but I feel so bad and when I'm thinking about telling her and how sad are would be because she trying so hard now it makes me sad to and I don't want to hurt her like she did. to me but at the same time I don't want to pass this woman at work up and I just Remember telling myself and my wife one day that I'll never give up on her and here I am wanting to give up on her but I kind of feel like she is ready to love me as much as I love her... damn I still don't know what I should do.

[PuNishant]

Well some man give their best in everything. We love truly we fight truly and we hate truly.

[Asker]

but i couldnt see the reason behind why he couldnt let me go

[PuNishant]

What about you. You didn't let him go either

[Asker]

because i still love him. im not leaving him because i didn't love him, but its because i dont know if he really loves me

[anon2192]

1) Honesty
2) Straightforwardness
3) Innocence
4) High IQ
5) Beauty (?)

[LegendaryIcon]

The hardest part of moving on.. is letting go

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-fV8Ympk_a8

[Asker]

he said he love me but he couldnt let me go. isn't it supposedly when you love someone you can let them go for the sake of them?

[LegendaryIcon]

not necessarily

[Asker]

but he did mention that i deserve better

[LegendaryIcon]

to be fair, we always do

[spartan55]

Great sex, or just sex.

[Asker]

i'm a virgin.

[spartan55]

The possibility of sex then.

[Asker]

we couldve done it that one time but he said he wants to take things slow for me

[spartan55]

Hmmm okay.

[Asker]

so i dont think its related to sex

[spartan55]

Hahaha, okay 👌

[Wise4myage]

Great sex.