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Because slutty women tend to have sh*tty attitudes and live reckless lifestyles.
it could mean she values herself, that is important
it could mean less emotional issues... that would depend upon whether she's cleaned up from past emotions.
I think it's stupid. Virgins are a lot of work and tend to be timid in bed. The primary reason some men like them is because they are insecure and think that since a virgin has no basis of comparison they won't be dissatisfied with their performance.
not for me. For me it's a mix religion, being able to relate to that person, having similar morals, and overall health and cleanliness.
@t-8900 Religion? God doesn't care if a girl has a hymen.
@JinxyKat you missed the mark completely.
"The primary reason some men like them is because they are insecure"
You dont speak for me dude. And what would you know what God cares about? You openly admitted to sleeping with other men's wives. Don't even try to bring up morals and ethics.
@t-8900 What business of mine is it if a woman has a husband? I don't get involved in their relationship choices except as they relate to me.
Because it is rare, and she is probably safer to be with.
Quite a logical reason.
@BaySherlock Indeed it is.
Why do so many modern women think a "pass me" 304 slut girl is a rare treasure? What can you give me that you haven't already given to a bunch of other men for free?
Because it is rare to find a virgin girl nowadays. Also I can't believe why such questions pop up. Nobody would date a woman who is not a virgin
Because most men are idiots. They think if they find a virgin, they will have someone dedicated to them and only them for life. They are clueless.
We sure are ☺️ clueless
Your opinion reeks of bitterness and resentment its funny.
Cause they are insecure about their sexual performance. And with a virgin, they don't need to worry, that she had a better one before them.
Or simply it's because they are men enough not to want to make love to women who have been intimate with others
@marish01 well most don't want a whore. But also not a frigid girl. I think in the age of birth controll, expecting a virgin is unreasonable.
I said "intimate with others"
Not nevessarily a whore.
But they still chose to have been intimate with others.
Why would the idea of her having had nale genitalia in her entrances make her more desirable to a man? Unless he's a cuck.
@marish01 im just saying that if you want a girl that likes the idea of having a dick inside her, at a certain age it's unreasonable to expect her to never have had that before if that's what she wants.
She can be sexual but wait for the right man. Not necessarily pick guys for the sake of it.
For the sake of having a dick
@marish01 well not everyone has that infantile, massive Disney idea of love and sexuality.
@marish01 like why would you think they have sex just for the dick? People normally tend to also like the people they decide to have sex with.
Depends. Some people have sex because they are bored. Others have it because they decide to satisfy their urges with anyone.
Some people have sex because they love the person. People choose who to have sex with depending on their feelings and their moral values.
Choosing the special person to love and have sex with is not childish, it is very mature. What is immature is impulsive sexual behavior.
Not really a treasure but it's rare and kinda sign that she's pure and the girl will always remember the guy who took it. Most today girl are on the cock carousel the hookup culture is women fault with their stupidity so a virgin girl can easily pair bond and have family and peaceful relationship. Or else the cock carousel dark forces ruin them most today's women have many dating apps like Snapchat IG tinder etc
Cuz most of them are already fucking around by 19.
Why do you care what a guy thinks, anyway? Is that going to change YOUR behavior?
It makes sense, like a biological desire in men before contraception, std medication and paternity tests.
As a woman I know it's important to hold out for a high quality man.
Why do people even care about crap like this? When was the last time someone cared about a boy's "virginity"?
It's different for boys and girls, boys usually don't have a lot of sex and thus girls don't ask them about it, girls on the hand get sex easy so it's always the first thing I look into a girl before dating her
Because modesty, and a good character is sexiest above all. She doesn't just go sleeping around and shit. Same for guys ( im straight though but if i was gay thats what id look for lol )
because she thinks she has never been with anyone before and thinks she is pure and unused. and he wants to open that treasure (so the virgin woman) himself first. 😍
*he thinks
Because most women now a days are so quick to jump into bed with a guy who's hawt. That when you come across a woman who has enough respect for herself to wait it's a rarity
Yeah that rarity must be cool. Unfortunately I never really had a choice. It got snatched so early, before even going to high school.
Too many sluts nowadays, and a virgin girl is the opposite of a slut.
#nailedit !
All throughout history pretty much every culture valued virginity in girls. It's almost like there is a pattern there.
Observe abstinence y'all and respect yourselves and wait until marriage because chances are if you put those restrictions you will find someone more genuine
Because a woman who doesn't just sleep with anybody and wants a husband is a rare sight.
Also something a lot of guys do value in women. Commitment and low bodycount.
Because it is. Ask 20 women over the age of 21 and you're lucky if even one is a virgin.
They are religious conservative idiots thats why and they has only one value of woman if they are Virgin its ok if its not exucude them kind of Mentality people and they are disgrace of mankind that my opiniun
I wouldn't say "a treasure" i just want to lose my virginity to another virgin, seems like a slim chance tho
Because they are not so easy to find.
They are only one out of 1,000,000 .
God Bless
Women don't understand that a guy would rather have a girl that hasn't been fucked by a bunch of guys and is only with him. Pussies that have been all over town with a bunch of men can have STDs and are gross.
Because almost every girl is having sex by the age of 16 nowadays so yes a virgin is precious and rare
Because the whole football team hasn't ran through her that's why baby 😏
Society. I went to a Catholic school for a small part of my life ….. there were other things considered “not a part of being a virgin” that my friends did which I always thought was stupid.
Like what things?
They probably knew they were wrong. They were lying to themselves. (Then again, Catholics can be easily deceived.)
They did thats on them being stupid.
It's fun if you are also a virgin as you can be more playful and experiment with sex more (a novelty to both of you...), but it's mostly those who are religious.
I guess it’s because she has no partners at all. You are the first man to give it to her. You can teach her. They like the fact that they’re really tight too.
There aren’t any Virgin guy left. I don’t know any. There are many Virgin girls that i know
There are plenty of virgin guys left, more than women, who do you think do all the simping 😗
@cookiecrusher i think it is about where you live. In where i live, women can not have sex until marriage but guys can. They lose their virginity by going hookers or escorts. Or they have girlfriends to have sex and then marry with virgin ones. So yes, we have no virgin man.
@cookiecrusher A virgin guy will be invisible to women, so they don't exist.
@Qdbrown i would much prefer Virgin because i am Virgin i wish i can find him it hurts me :(
Most women like men other women want too. It is how it is.
A good place for virgins and introverts is the church. Just bounce around between few, make new friends.
Even if you aren't religious it's a good place where to find people who save themselves for marriage.
And also a good welcoming place where to improve your social skills.
@cookiecrusher yeah i know because i am introvert i haven’t had my first kiss even in the age 25 :( so of course a man who is not virgin hurts me. Because i am. ( i should improve my social skills first) thank you for your help and thoughts 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Let me introduce myself.
@JHNS98 of course :)
Because there are way more non virgins than virgins so they are rare. And most men prefer virgins so there isn't enough of them. They are a rare treasure. Rare and valuable.
Because some dudes like the idea of being someone first.
From some (not all) guys I know, they see it as an accomplishment to be a girl's first. A bragging right to be the conquer of uncharted territory.
Being the one that no matter how many guys come later, they had it first.
Some guys changed their mind about dating me when they found out I already lost my virginity.
Well I sure envy a man who has taken a girl's virginity. I've never had the pleasure.
Unfortunately I gave my virginity to a real life narcisstic-sociopath; a real monster. He took my virginity, my time, my youthful years with fake marriage promises and my money. Plus I found out he even lied about his real age. I just successfully ended my psychology session and doing a lot better now. I'm sure there is nothing to envy about a user taking someone's innocence (both physically and mentally).
It doesn't end there; he was after both my money and my grandma's money. I'm now reconstructing my life he destroyed. He knew I was an innocent, naive girl that saw the good in people and I happened to encountered someone evil in my life.
Well that's too bad all that happens. I hope you don't think that every guy who thinks taking a girl's virginity is a good thing is like that. I mean my ex-wife turned out to be a promiscuous slut that doesn't mean that every Hispanic girl with glasses is like that.
Actually nope. I'm just now more careful with sharing my information with anyone, I'm not very naive anymore and will never give out my money to anyone except my parents and grandma if they need. I'm going out on a date with someone this Saturday. We have something in common, both of us practice Judo.
Most guys don't want a virgin. They just want a woman who hasn't slept around casually, which does seem to be a rare treasure today, at least in the West.
Not me, I like a woman who knows what they want and isn't afraid to do what she likes in bed
A virgin girl is a treasure.
She has been untouched by some other guy's semen.
Is semen territorial?
@FictionalCharacter in a way.
Its not something i would want. My hat to any virgins but at my age that can't be good and it wouldn't be something i would even want anyway
It’s because of her standard and commitment to the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with. Even before she meets him.
I can see how evolution or biology may be stated…but no. This is a fetish. Reinforced by porn.
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They know , no better.. because a virgin doesn't exist... like the doedoe, it's an exstint, species... masterbation make them virgins, no more., who makes u feel good, but yourself...
They are, now more than ever. Ultimately "treasure" is "something rare" I slept with 2 virgins. One was 28! at the time.. i was amazed. Although she was avg looking, and im not that picky.
Because these men, only care about their pleasure, and not that of their partner.
Because she is zero mileage and has nothing to compare me to in terms of technique or equipment.
Ewww why would that be a treasure. It is ok to prefere virgins but virgins ain't superior or special. I prefere virgins since i am also one but i would be disgusted if he think this a treasure
Because as far as I've seen, that's exactly what it is---rare.
Because they've either been conditioned to think that way or because they're insecure about their own sexual abilities/experience
Woman is woman virgin or not. Faithful is better than unfaithful. Virgin or non virgin I don't know. I think little experienced is better.
Thanks for like!
women are a lot more sexually free these days, as much as conservatives hate it, women are expressing themselves, in ways they HATE
Because they seriously think they'll be the last one🤣🤣🤣
Not having children nor abortions makes you emotionally available
Oh, and being cisgender, obviously, someone willing to live not just ruin others for their genital inability and pain.
Same reason why some women think a virgin guy is a rare treasure
i dont think women have that kind of a mentality
women would usually love a virgin guy, but i dont think thats rare to find...
Then to your question, i don't think men have that kind of mentality. Men would usually love a virgin girl, but i don't think that's where to find
*rare to find
sure
A popular question
It’s a little special
She could be saving herself for marriage and waiting for marriage
No. I don't get why people make such a HUGE deal about virginity.
I’ve heard that it’s because. A virgin still has a tight virgin pusssy
Maybe, but I think it's more because a lot of guys actually love a "good girl".
It's because the pussy is tight and guys enjoy sex more
In todays world it’s rare, I think it’s great , I wish my daughter had followed that path.
why?
does it make her any different from other girls?
@thaivrb yes because it is our moral views that ductate who to have sex with and when
Because that’s what you girls tell and show guys every day in pic and videos
Cause it’s like finding a needle in a hay stack nowadays.
Some men like having the ability to take a women's virginity