How come he blocked me, on social media after a argument?

[Anonymous]

We got into a argument online than he blocked me.

[ohshee]

Men can be boys. Just because they think something they think they're right and if you're not going to go their way and of course they run with their tails in between their legs and they don't want to hear it no more so they block you like a little five-year-old

[Whislelowblow]

What did you say to him? And don’t make you or him sound like the bad guy. The honest truth. Well…… if you want to. If not I don’t really care 🤣. But I’ll try to give you a good reply.

[Asker]

I wrote to him he was a random person that message came across the wrong way so he called me a random person than he blocked me. What I meant to write he was a random guy back than when I didn’t know him now we ain’t random to each other now, we just were friends.

[Whislelowblow]

Well, that kind of answers the question. He seems to be short tempered. Just leave him alone for now. Nothing you can really do about it. He might claim down after a few weeks then unblock you and then apologize about how he acted with some excuse on why he acted that way.

[Asker]

Your reply is helpful and good. I blocked him back, we both do youth organisation/he hasn’t been attending. I deleted his number also I got a few no caller ID’s not long ago, not sure who that was. He might say sorry he might not I wouldn’t hold on to hope.

[Whislelowblow]

It’s alright. It happens to the best of us. Just don’t let it get to and don’t dwell on the past. Always keep a positive mind set and always do what you love doing. If you do something for just the money or for external validation and you don’t enjoy it, then you’re going to feel miserable. If pick something you’re passionate about you might not be happy every day, but because you love what you’re doing it’ll help you get through those hard days. Same thing with that negative experience. Try to do things you love doing to help you get over it.

[Asker]

Okay I use like the guy in the past, I’m going though a 3 week breakup. I’m just talking to guys as friends. Not that his my ex guy from the question happened over the weekend now I finally understand it doesn’t feel great when losing friends. People come and go

[Whislelowblow]

Yeah, I know the feeling too well.

[Asker]

Yeah… than getting blocked by that guy friend who was giving me mixed signals I haven’t found out why his blocked me yet. He doesn’t talk about me to others. I don’t cry over it. I think the trash took it self out. I had also remove myself from a very toxic situation with my last ex I was with for a long time

[Whislelowblow]

Try not feel hateful. I know some people are real pieces of shit, but try not to let it get to you. The best revenge is to live a good life. Like when someone lets hate take over them and they lash out and hurt the person it just allows that person that they hate to ruin their life even more because now you're in jail, everyone saying how awful you are and the person you hate becomes a poor victim that everyone sheds tears for. It's not worth it to hold on to any anger or hate. You've got to leave the past in the past.

[Asker]

Not holding onto to anger and hate. Your right about that the past is the past.

[spartan55]

, isn't that what you young people do when you get in a fight?

[Anonymous]

You answered your own question. Because you got into an argument.

[Iron_Man]

To teach you a lesson

[Asker]

What kind of lesson

[Iron_Man]

You probably did something to upset him that’s why he blocked you out of anger but it shouldn’t last for too long

[Asker]

Lasted for 6 days.

[Iron_Man]

That’s long

[Asker]

Yeah his from my program. he hasn’t came in two weeks he sleeps in till 2-3pm he usually would get up early. He Has a bad memory I wrote he was a random guy he took it the wrong way, he wrote I’m a random women told me to go away than blocked me than I thought what a wanker I reminded him when I was in a relationship he asked me if their a chance we would ever date I said no not interested than after I wrote it’s ok if he doesn’t remember he was a random guy I meant to say he was back than I kinda know him not very well

[Iron_Man]

I hope it can work out for you talk to him

[Asker]

If he wants to I don’t know my female friend told me his spoken to her doesn’t say much to her doesn’t mention his love life to her he pretended he had a girlfriend towards me which was a lie he never mentioned me to her

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that

[Asker]

It’s okay maybe he forgot who I am due to he hasn’t been coming to the program he kept looking at me because he hasn’t seen me in a while it was like he was interested in me

[Iron_Man]

Wait it out and see what happens

[Asker]

I sure will wait see what happens Since I hang out with somebody who he use hangout with them both threw clay at each other than once I came back than his ex friend was being rude to him so he got upset than he also hang out with somebody last time we hung out with a chick who bullied me in front of him and others so could been over the guy why me and him done talking..

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that I hope things get better for you

[Asker]

Hopefully soon they will have I done anything wrong

[Iron_Man]

No nothing is your fault

[Asker]

Yeah I’m not going hold on to hope though Not sure if his going come back to the program

[Iron_Man]

We’ll see what happens

[Asker]

I sure will my sister told me it’s funny how he called me a random women when his the one who wanted to date me and was interested in me 2 weeks ago I’m still blocked though

[Iron_Man]

I hear you girl

[Asker]

Should I give it time? I also left a relationship 4 weeks ago now I’m starting to feel better

[Iron_Man]

Hmm yes

[Asker]

Should I give it a few more weeks?

[Asker]

To see if he comes around as a friend

[Iron_Man]

Yes for sure

[Asker]

Yeah I guess I have be patient do you think he blocked me to try get over me

[Iron_Man]

I’m not really sure maybe he was angry

[Asker]

He did sound angry he is known to get angry easily

[Iron_Man]

Yes but give it time

[Asker]

I agree When I told him to go away back my message said delivered on normal text message it still says delivered which is weird

[Iron_Man]

Right will see what happens

[Asker]

Yeah he might come around as a friend in the future even though he wasn’t the right person I never dated him but I’m just moving forward.. going with the flow.

[Iron_Man]

Awesome

[Asker]

Yeah he still has me blocked wouldn’t come to the program because he sleeps in to 2:00pm. I also found a new crush

[Iron_Man]

Well that is funny

[Asker]

Yeah do you think my old former crush is making excuses?

[Iron_Man]

Yes Who is the new crush that you found where at

[Asker]

I meet him though his mate we use hang out as friends for two months while I was in a relationship at my ex house I known him since May, we now talk all the time he interested in greeting my family and seeing me this weekend.

[Iron_Man]

Nice cool

[Asker]

Does he sound interested?

[Iron_Man]

Waiting to find out after your first date together

[Asker]

Yeah is it called a date when meeting up?

[Iron_Man]

Yes of course good luck

[Asker]

Thank you he tried call me last night I missed his call he always wants me to let him know I got back home safe he sounds like a caring friend

[Iron_Man]

Awesome Give him a nice kiss but no sex

[Asker]

I asked him if I sound interested in him to see what he says. Yeah I don’t think sex is going happen. Not sure if we kiss due to that be crossing the line of a friendship do I sound like I’m more than friends Kinda already without the benefits

[Iron_Man]

No not sexual benefits

[Asker]

That is good can I call it a friendship with a connection

[Iron_Man]

If you want or he can be your boyfriend

[Asker]

I asked him if I sound interested in him he says I’m just being a good friend and good person what did he mean by that

[Iron_Man]

I’m not really sure but find out after you kiss him

[Asker]

I don’t want rush into things I don’t know if me and him are going kiss due to I think it’s just a hangout

[Iron_Man]

I guess so do what you want take it by mood

[Asker]

Yeah if he told me he loves talking to me that I’m just being a good friend does that mean he thinks I’m interested in him kinda he knows I been single for 4 weeks knows I’m a smart person

[Iron_Man]

Just go out on a date and see what happens then report back to me 👍

[Asker]

Okay sure thing

[Iron_Man]

That would be awesome I’m going to have breakfast right now I’ll talk to you soon 😊

[Asker]

Okay :) In 4 days I see him

[Iron_Man]

Awesome if he doesn’t work out what’s next?

[Asker]

You mean if me and him date?

[Iron_Man]

If you fail who’s the next lucky guy

[Asker]

I wonder.. if me and him do become boyfriend and girlfriend than if it doesn’t workout/he ain’t the one than I have find another guy

[Iron_Man]

And Who would that lucky guy be?

[Asker]

Unknown. Because I can’t see though the future

[Iron_Man]

Well when you see the future let me know 😊

[Asker]

What happens if the guy I’m talking to going on a date with is the one? Cause I can’t think of being with another guy.

[Iron_Man]

Then you will enjoy a nice relationship

[Asker]

With the one I be going on a date with?

[Iron_Man]

Yes of course who else would it be

[Iron_Man]

Is it me the final crush maybe?
😊

[Asker]

I hope his the final crush

[Iron_Man]

If it doesn’t work out come get me

[Asker]

I don’t have it’s not going workout in mind that’s interesting

[Iron_Man]

I’ll date you then

[Asker]

No thanks

[Iron_Man]

Lol You’ve been busted I know who you are

[Asker]

You got to be kidding me lol

[Iron_Man]

You Remind me of a certain somebody lol

[Iron_Man]

Come on confess

[Asker]

Confess what

[Iron_Man]

Who
You are

[Asker]

I sent a follow request

[Iron_Man]

Oh I’m so sorry

[Iron_Man]

My bad

[Asker]

That’s all good

[Iron_Man]

I’m so sorry I apologize I thought you were another girl

[Iron_Man]

Thank you for the follow

[Asker]

That’s ok

[Iron_Man]

Thank you so much

[Asker]

Anytime

[Iron_Man]

I hope it works out for you and your crush

[Asker]

Thank you

[Iron_Man]

You’re so welcome

[Asker]

Who did I remind you of.

[Iron_Man]

This girl that I’ve been talking to for six months

[Iron_Man]

Sometimes she likes to test me

[Asker]

Oh okay I wish you good luck with her

[Iron_Man]

Thanks so much

[Asker]

No worries 😌

[Iron_Man]

Yea and I hope that you do well with your new crush

[Asker]

Yeah Due to I know him his no random person that’s even better

[Iron_Man]

Thy is so
Nice 👍

[Iron_Man]

OK thank you for the conversation I’m gonna get some sleep now

[Zalty]

some people do dumb things when they're mad, hopefully things just cool down

[Asker]

Was blocked 6 days ago after saying he was a random guy lol well he was somebody I didn’t know at first I wasn’t being rude than he called me random women told me to go away such a silly boy

[wittymilf]

Coz he’s pissed off at you

[JosyJosy]

cause of the argument I guess

[this_kassi]

An outrageous move for sure, but it's okay.

[Asker]

He thought I called him a random guy so he blocked me he took my message the wrong way. Yeah it is okay. Him and I were just friends we saw each other a little bit

[Aurora1010]

Because he's not a commited or mature person

[Kaneki05]

The question already has the answer in it. smh.