my ex tells me she misses me, she contacts me through aim, she told me she started crying when she was putting all the presents (stuff animals clothes etc) away. We started talking and it seems to go great.
we broke up about a month ago and she has a new bf. I already stoped grieving and moved on but when she contacted me she tells me she started to miss me and was crying.
i want her to be happy even tho she cheated on me but why is she suddenly missing me and crying over me when she already has herself a new bf.
im not gona ignore her cause I'm not gona be immature over a break up I already saw her kissing her new boyfriend but what should I do I feel like I'm the one who dumped her but in reality she was the one who was seeing another guy behind my back.
we broke up about a month ago and she has a new bf. I already stoped grieving and moved on but when she contacted me she tells me she started to miss me and was crying.
i want her to be happy even tho she cheated on me but why is she suddenly missing me and crying over me when she already has herself a new bf.
im not gona ignore her cause I'm not gona be immature over a break up I already saw her kissing her new boyfriend but what should I do I feel like I'm the one who dumped her but in reality she was the one who was seeing another guy behind my back.
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firstly, I want to say that ignoring someone is not immature.have you considered that maybe that person is deeply hurt by his opposite half?and that it is his way of getting over the whole relationship?anyway I hope you jus change ur idea of immaturity.sorry for this "lecture"
ok back to the topic.i'm jus guessing that it is residue emotions left behind when she went with the other guy?even though she cheated on you she must have had good memories of when you were with her.maybe she feels that the guy is only using her for sex right now?its jus feelings of hers that causing her actions.nothing that you did to affect it.she's probably jus reminising on her past relationship that's all
Hmm I guess your right I don't know she's been confusing lately and I i guess ignoring her isn't immature its just I don't wana have to deal with ignoring her when I have her for a class.
So she's in ur sch?if you dun want to ignore her...treat her non-chalently like any other person..dun give her special attention...girls like this sense of "power" that comes with guys doing things for them..u might be encouraging her to continue sending you mixed signals..right now she's probably trying to manipulate you to do things she wants you to do..hard to confirm it but that's my guess
I guess but I'm not gona be manipulated that easily and in about two weeks my semester will be over and I can just transfer to another univeristy that is closer to me since I choose to be in the same one as her so we can be together... and she will soon be nothing but a long forgoten memory
Thats good..i know the feeling that ur going through since you said you went to the university for her..u feel a bit lost don't u?
I was for awhile and pretty much this semester sucked cause when I found out she cheated on me I was a mess I failed 2 of my exams and haven't done 4 of my english essays. I can't make them up anymore since there is like only 3 or 4 weeks left. pretty much this whole year was bad for me I talked to the professors but there really stingy, anyways I no I shouldnt of had this relationshipe get to my head so next year I'm just gona stick to dating and no girlfriend untill I get myself a good job
Hey dude I totally understand what you went through...u put "love" into the relationship and of course it really hurts when you get cheated on like that..my reaction was even worse than urs confirm..anyway safe to say I realised that there is no reason to ruin my life because of one girl...she's not worth it..i got over her through my frens because they kept my mind occupied..although its really sucky at night..seriously
Hell yeah nights suck when your alone you lie there in bed and then out of nowhere you just randomly start thinking about her
Spoken like a true-broken-hearted dude..LOL...but later u'll feel something else...freedom..that ur not tied down...its very cliche but yeah hahaha
Im not sure if this applies to your situation but from my own personal experience I can say its probably because the new guy isn't measuring up to you. When I broke up with my ex because of a new guy I found myself missing him and thinking about him a lot. Not really because I wanted him back but just because I missed a lot of the stuff we had that I didn't have with my new guy. Not every relationship is the same and chances are she wants her new guy to have some of your qualities but she realizes it isn't going to happen. The bottom line is she cheated on you knowingly and intentional and you shouldn't feel bad because she put herself in that situation. She most likely didn't feel that she was happy with you, but now maybe she sees that she was wrong and she shouldn't have left you for another guy.but remember once a cheater always a cheater.
Well I don't plan on getting back with her unless I know for a fact that she has changed but I won't see that happening, but in time I'm sure there will be someone out there that is right for the both of us
Dont worry man. there is always and I mean always someone better for you