My friends with benefits at first never went down on me?

[ces22]

In the beginning of our friends with benefits he never gave me oral and now he does. Why could this be?

[NamerOfStars]

Well, the obvious answer is "you asked", but I'm guessing that's not the case; if it were, you'd know. So the next ones in line are "he thought [correctly or otherwise] that you didn't want it, but now knows better", "he thought he'd be awful at it, and that'd be worse than not doing it, but then realized he'd never improve without practice" and "he didn't assign much value to it, then heard otherwise, figured 'what the hell', and tried it, to enough success that he now keeps it up".

It's probably not rocket science.

[ces22]

I did ask in the beginning multiple times. He just randomly did it one day without me asking him to do it.

[NamerOfStars]

That's kind of odd, then. I suppose he just changed his mind.

[AviatorTom]

He's obviously more comfortable with you now. Many women don't like to receive oral and he was probably being careful not to push you away early in your friends with benefits time. Once he learns that you like (or at least tolerate) oral, he (like most men) is very happy to give you oral.

[laura123iu]

cause he now cares about u, and wants to marry you and build a family. haha because it's an act, why read into it

[Dinklex3]

Probably because he's more comfortable with you now and knows you don't stink.

[kyleelyn199723]

Because men tend to be skeptical of oral on us before they know us fully.

[FilmGuy93]

The more you sleep with someone, the more comfortable you get

[Ironic_Method]

I generally don't go down on a girl I've just met because I don't know how hygienic they are.

[2021biguy]

He doesn't want to eat a stranger's pussy, maybe she has STDs or he doesn't feel comfortable with you yet.

[Wise4myage]

He changed his mind, or you started going down on him?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he was insecure about his "performance", maybe its a very intimate sexual act for him and he needed some time. I wouldn't worry too much about it.

[Anonymous]

I assume you've been sexually active since your teens

[Danny_dan92]

He probably was afraid of a stinky pussy

[Anonymous]

He was making sure you were clean of stds lol

[ces22]

Lol. He knew I was the first day. We showed our proof

[BarryLiverstone]

He learned

[ces22]

He said he has given girl head before and that he had mad a girl quirt before so I don't know

[BarryLiverstone]

Guys say things that are not true