Why does my friends with benefits keep standing me up?

[Anonymous]

My friends with benefits keep standing me up. I cut him off last year because he would ask to come see me, but then he wouldn’t show up or even text me to let me know that he wasn’t coming anymore. We reconnected this year and I told him he needed to communicate with me better and it hasn’t been an issue up until this weekend. He asked to come see me. I told him he could come later in the day and then I text again to ask if he was still coming or not, and he did not respond. Why does he keep asking to see me if he’s just going to stand me up or make other plans

[Amy_Mi]

Because they lack respect for your time or clarity in intention.

Friends with benefits without consistency is just convenience, not connection.

If someone repeatedly stands you up, it signals misalignment, their actions define their priorities, not their words.

Respect yourself enough to only invest in people who show up, not those who treat commitment as optional.

[curiousandhonest]

Ungrateful bastard. So it's only on the menu when he decides!

[jahaims]

Because you are just a cum rag and he doesn't care about you

[OneViewpoint]

Apparently he has a lot of friends.

[Danny_dan92]

He’s getting pussy elsewhere

[yotaman99]

I’d never stand you up

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Girl, dump him

[JDLives]

He’s a control freak