My boyfriend & I have been fighting a lot. During the fights he throws up my mental health, low self esteem & past relationships & threats to leave?

[ananomusssss]

he also ignores all things I want or try to talk about, then he will get angry with me when I attempt to speak about it again, saying I’m going on and on and that causes an argument. along with ignoring calls & texts after arguing, sometimes for an entire day. .

[Star_88]

Is there anything else left to explain?
Breakup with that demon.
Why I see it's always girls quitting their jobs and even being treated like shit by those monsters and still LOVE them? Try doing the same with him and he'll fight back, cuss at you, get revenge on you and break up.

[ananomusssss]

like we’re currently in one now. he just called me after Ignoring my texts & calls, then immediately hungup when I answered.

so I called back and he sends me to voicemail.

[Star_88]

If you treated him the same way he treats you, he would have already left. Also, he's seeing someone else otherwise why would he be ignoring you all the time? Most Guys keep many girls with them that's why they're not available completely to one girl.

[ananomusssss]

He very often throws up my ex who cheated on me. Stating he did that because I have a “shit personality”. Although I was never told that before I got with him.

[Star_88]

Do you plan to tolerate this abuse and disrespect forever while sacrificing your job, freedom, and overall life?

[Finchie40]

He sounds like my ex and sad to say he is toxic , something you should really reconsider , when someone can’t hear You out and care about your feelings that person only cares about themselves and only likes the convenience of you , All couples argue about stupid things but when someone is constantly arguing and blaming you for everything without hearing your side of the story then you are in a toxic relationship and you are probably best to move on from him cuz he will not change

[Finchie40]

Also the fact that he ignores your text and calls is childish behavior and shows his true character especially if he can go a whole day without even saying a word to you , probably leaves you feeling insecure which is not a good thing what so ever , everyone has insecurities but when you are with someone that ignites those buried insecurities it’s best to walk away and find someone that doesn’t want to leave your side

[AviatorTom]

Fights between couples sometimes turn dirty, with things said that the person later regrets.

If he really means these things (only you can determine that), then you have a serious question to answer: Do you want to continue the relationship or not?

Remember that only you have the rights to determine who you are in a relationship with, and why. A relationship should be good, and make you happy. If it doesn't, maybe it's time to end it and move on.

[ItsMeElliana]

thats unhealthy, and toxic. leave him instead. i know its gonna be hard if you loved him, but doesn't feel like he loves you back, and then there's no meaning of this relationship if its just gonna be one sided and toxic. its just unhealthy and i really hope you find someone better who actually cares

[dustybiker]

Your situation will not change, it will most likely get worse. Leave and find someone who respects you.
Tip.. give any new relationships a fresh start. Don’t think all men are like this. It will turn into a cycle otherwise.

[NathanDavis]

and you still love him?

[ananomusssss]

i do.
I have devoted my entire life to him. It’s been nearly 3 years. I moved to be closer to him, I quit my HOSPITAL job.

[NathanDavis]

but why would you love someone that does so much wrong to you?

[ananomusssss]

I have a good heart; that’s why:(

[NathanDavis]

but he doesn't seem to have one.. so why would you put up with that?

[ananomusssss]

he tells me if we break up “no one else will put up with your shit. you’ll be single your whole life”
so I’m kind of scared, but I deep down love him

[NathanDavis]

this is not what love is about... not at all

[najekim]

He's a tormentor. Go find someone better.

[sheikalana]

That's sounds pretty toxic.

[Daphne00]

It’s time to leave or it could end badly.

[Joshua0213]

Then leave him. . .

[In_Trance]

give him the toe

[Anonymous]

That's toxic bad boy you won't leave