I feel like it’s not normal but why would he want to do that?

[Bracefacesummer]

My boyfriend gets mad at me and go deep inside of me when he’s upset with me when we have sex. He would say he’s going to punish me and I just think that’s weird like why do that? I’ll do something to him that he dont like and he would say he can’t wait until we get in bed to punish me.

[whirled_up_girl]

Is this is something that you like? If so then I guess it's okay. Personally, I always tried to stay away from angry sex, it feels too much like turning sex into a weapon. That's just me however, you do what you're comfortable with.

[Bracefacesummer]

No I told him about it. He said it’s because I made him upset.

[whirled_up_girl]

@bracefacesummer If it's not something your comfortable with you should tell him that, that you prefer not to have angry sex or have him "punish you" during the act. Not being on the same page about how you like to connect in bed could really hurt your relationship in the long run. It could lead to even more arguments and misunderstandings etc. If he's a decent guy, he'll take your feelings into consideration and change his ways.

[Bracefacesummer]

I told him he said it’s because I pissed him off and that’s how he releases his anger which is so weird to me

[whirled_up_girl]

@bracefacesummer Oh, I'm sorry, personally I couldn't be in a relationship with someone like this, that wanted to use having sex with me as a way to release their anger. I know both men and women say it releases stress to have sex which is true for most of us, but anger particularly directed at the other person is much more intense and to me it would seem emotionally unhealthy, good luck with sorting it all out.

[jennifer_bloom]

I would break up if he is abusing you like that

[Bracefacesummer]

Yea I don’t think that’s cool. When I make him upset he does that.

[spartan55]

Sounds like a great guy you chose...🙄

[Wise4myage]

You are dating a very selfish dude.

[emperor90]

Break up he is abusing u