I’m about 5’9 and 180lbs.. but I have a flappy stomach, stretch marks on my lower back and stomach, a horrible small burn scar on my lower stomach, cellulite, rolls and boobs that hang down. I take care of myself though, shower a lot, lotion, exfoliate, wax, I’m not like unhygienic
his two ex’s where very very petite, didn’t work out but had naturally thin, slender, toned bodies and perfectly flat stomachs, very thin looking. So, i was his friend before we dated and i once heard him talking about his ex calling her perfect from head to toe and having a comparison of her to this chubbier girl that he hated to piss her off, kind of sucks because that chubbier girl is a little lighter than me. Anyway, he wants to shower with me and I honestly want to end the relationship.
other people have seen my imperfections their reactions
“oh wow what happened to your lower back? That’s a lot of stretch marks for someone who isn’t even that overweight”
”damn your breasts hang so low”
”what the hell why so floppy?”
my doctor said “they are a bit droopy for someone of your age. You would need to lose weight I can refer you to a plastic surgeon”
I just feel like he’s going to leave me if he sees me standing there naked; he’s gonna see everything wrong with me and seek a girl that doesn’t have all these imperfections
his two ex’s where very very petite, didn’t work out but had naturally thin, slender, toned bodies and perfectly flat stomachs, very thin looking. So, i was his friend before we dated and i once heard him talking about his ex calling her perfect from head to toe and having a comparison of her to this chubbier girl that he hated to piss her off, kind of sucks because that chubbier girl is a little lighter than me. Anyway, he wants to shower with me and I honestly want to end the relationship.
other people have seen my imperfections their reactions
“oh wow what happened to your lower back? That’s a lot of stretch marks for someone who isn’t even that overweight”
”damn your breasts hang so low”
”what the hell why so floppy?”
my doctor said “they are a bit droopy for someone of your age. You would need to lose weight I can refer you to a plastic surgeon”
I just feel like he’s going to leave me if he sees me standing there naked; he’s gonna see everything wrong with me and seek a girl that doesn’t have all these imperfections
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Update: “he said everyone has imperfections he said let’s go gym you don’t need to feel bad in your own body your beautiful and I accept you flaws and all it ain’t nothing to have a little stretch marks hell they’re fading so good ! I ain’t perfect why should I expect you to be I’ll support you if you want a breast lift it it’s that bad that it has you out here scared to feel comfortable with me “
