”Most guys don't like texting unless it's a girl they're into and especially not at 2am”, true or not?

[Anonymous]

What does it mean when guy doesn’t mind chatting with a girl very late at night (innocent conversation) ?

[melanieeeB]

Lmao out of personal experience, guys who only text you at 1/2 am too sweet talk you into a booty call... I will say, if he really likes you, he will call, show up and text all the time, no matter if he likes it or not. It's so simple.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

I confirm this with the exception of when it's someone they're always helping/supporting through text

[Asker]

Usually I text him first. Out conversations usuakky continue for days. I’ve noticed that he prefers to text around bed time like after 10pm. One time we texted when it was 2am and he was in bed o. O. Our conversations are innocent so it’s not a booty call situation…

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Does he delay his answers from time to time or he's consistently quick in replying

[Asker]

He’s a busy guy during the day. When he has time he replies sometimes very quickly like after couple minutes. One time he fell asleep and 30min he woke up and replied to me again despite being tired.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

That's very good, it's good to have friends who really like you and care about you

[Asker]

We aren’t friends tho…or nit before I started messaging him. Also he’s playful sometimes as if he’s flirting with me.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

I thought so, just didn't want to assume, it's going well I guess

[Asker]

Here’s how it went:

I texted him ”hi  ” in our native language.

Then he replied to me ” chao chao , como esta?

I said to him ” lol so you speak Spanish now”

He replied to me:” you guessed right. I started to practice it straight away lol”

was he flirting since he’s never studied Spanish?

[SAMI_DABBAB]

I don't know if you can call this flirting, but him letting you in on what he's doing is always a good thing, it will be a good idea if you learn few "convenient" words to play around with 🌚

[Asker]

by the way he’s muslim like I am too and he’s mentioned that he prays. Do tou think he’s trying to impress me and he likes me?

[Asker]

You*

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Not exactly trying to impress, like he's just presenting himself which also still a good thing

[Asker]

Why would he present himself to me…

[SAMI_DABBAB]

He cares about what you might think of him, this has potential to be anything

[Asker]

by the way what did you mean by this: “it will be a good idea if you learn few "convenient" words to play around with” ?

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Flirty words in Spanish so you can surprise him, assuming you like him too

[Asker]

He doesn’t Spanish tho. He said talked to me in Spanish suddenly for no reason. We have three other common languages that we both speak.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

It ain't that deep I guess

[Asker]

Ok, but when he decided to speak Spanish to me, wasn’t he flirting? o. O?

[SAMI_DABBAB]

I would say no, it did not sound or feel like flirting to me

[Asker]

He said that with blushing smiley 😄 It felt like he was flirting

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Honestly, you know better because you know what it might have been relative to that point in the conversation, I just said what felt right to me

[Asker]

One last question. He had to get out of bed to pray since he’s muslim. He said that he’s so tired that he’s gathering energy to get up and do that. Still he was texting with me o. O?

[SAMI_DABBAB]

He chose to do something easier plus enjoyable instead of getting up

[Asker]

Lol would guy just say that to any girl?

[SAMI_DABBAB]

A girl they're comfortable with

[Asker]

Why don’t you just say that he’s probably interested?

[SAMI_DABBAB]

I'm not 100% sure and we seem to have different views on what flirting is

[Asker]

Well what’s obvious flirting to u?

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Flirting needs to be something about you or him in relation to you, not himself with something else

[Adam1978]

It's true for me and I think I belong to the majority here.

[Asker]

So you think he likes me since he’s willing to talk to me that late?

[Adam1978]

No some people are just polite.

[Adam1978]

So you can't be sure with only that info.

[Asker]

He carries our conversation etc.. he’s leading me on if he’s just being polite.

[spartan55]

Even then she is on borrowed time.

[Wise4myage]

That's very true for me.

[Asker]

He’s the type who doesn’t go to bed early.. still he’s texting with me when he’s in bed o. O

[PeterSmith1983]

Lol it always starts innocent

[es20490446e]

that he's into her.

[Asker]

Why do u think so? by the way he’s the type that doesn’t go to bed early.

[es20490446e]

if i'm not into a girl, i don't text her at that time just for her not to think so.

[Asker]

To give her wrong idea?

[Asker]

You wouldn’t text her back those hours even if she texted first?

[es20490446e]

exactly.

[Asker]

What of he’s actually disrespecting me
Since he doesn’t like to message during the day?

[Asker]

If he’s *

[es20490446e]

get in person, and figure it out :P