I told my guy friend (29) I prefer a guy my age and he said he has a better body than guys my age and he’s better. Is the cockiness a redflag?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

[bowenw]

I think it's a red flag that he assumed a guy's body is of high importance to you and that he thinks highly of his.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Right? Like I’d waaaay rather have a guy with a body similar to mines or a dad bod or even skinny or chubby with a good personality kind spirit and humble than someone that thinks they’re gods gift to me because they have a bit of muscle.

[bowenw]

👍👍

[spartan55]

Lol, sounds like a douche. ANYONE who brags about him or herself about anything is someone to be avoided.

[PRENowNNext]

He just likes you and is using any argument to get with you. LOL Don't be concerned, just turn him down if you don't want him. It's only a red flag if he's being cocky in other ways.

[noohair]

You attacked his ego and he is protection himself. The male ego is as fragile as an egg, once broken, it does not fix well. And I consider most 21 year old people as immature.

[dvp724]

It could be, because I guarantee there are people your age with a better body and people older than him with a better body. Seems kinda conceited

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

It’s just an odd thing to say I told him, you could’ve said you are wiser, more mature, have more life experience, have more education than them but instead you use the most superficial thing. Why? Then I told him looks fade and sometimes things could happen in your life and you could end up with a different type of body. Then I told him it’s a shame he thinks that all he has going for him. He just said “you’ll figure it out” yeah, I’m gonna leave this one I think

[dvp724]

I would, I think he just mad you kinda rejected him

[888theGreat]

Oh I see you started a new profile. Is this the guy that dumped you for someone else and came back? This is a new guy?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I don’t know he came back actually! buuuut no this is someone else now, someone a little older

[Luckycharms12]

Sounds like a dick tbh conference is nice cocky is okay but he just seems like a dick no one is better than anyone else

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

that’s not even confidence if he was confident he would just accept my answer instead of commenting that like. just a douche

[Luckycharms12]

Ya he thinks he better than you in that case fuck him. Deserve better than that

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I never thought about it that way, it is an indicator he thinks he’s better than me. I told him he isn’t better than anyone my age but at the same time none of them are better than him I told him it’s equal if anything his personality makes him worse than some people

[Luckycharms12]

If his older should be more mature and respectful. To you and to others clearly isn't going to impress you or make you want him speaking like that

[Anonymous]

Only you can answer that question. Some women love cocky guys.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

It’s just not a good first impression but yeah maybe another girl my age would giggle or find it not a big deal but that isn’t me

[LiamSawyer]

Take what you can get.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Meaning…? I should accept a cocky asshole because at least I can him? I don’t understand your point

[Wise4myage]

No, he's just being cocky.

[OddBeMe]

He’s a red flag, fo sho.

[PeterSmith1983]

He is just trying to win you over

[LegendaryIcon]

Guy friend? What are you, 5?

[emperor90]

Yes it is

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I just said this “that’s rude. Just because you think you have a nicer body doesn’t mean everyone else thinks that and you could’ve said you are older, or wiser or have more life experience but instead you used the most superficial thing. You are superficial” And then he just laughed. Mature