What’s up with him?

[Aimee_]

Guy is still mad with me because I went out with another guy he told me what do I want and why can’t I just leave him alone.

[TallAnon]

He feels cucked. He wants to feel like you only care about him, that he's special.

[Aimee_]

He’s gonna feel that way forever?

[TallAnon]

Yeah and you hurt his ego, he's not going to forget it anytime soon

[Aimee_]

He doesn’t want to let me talk.

[Aimee_]

His loss. He will regret it

[TallAnon]

Yeah, the deed is already done.

I was in a situation at some point where a girl I had sex with a few times sent me nudes and told me she liked me.. and fucked another dude 3 hours later.. and she told me because the condom broke and she was freaking out. I told her to stop talking to me and ask the other dude.
If she's playing around, I will quit the game. We never talked again.
This feels similar.

[Aimee_]

You felt hurt by her? Would you talk to her again?

[TallAnon]

Wouldn't say hurt, I just value her way less. Maybe, but she would have to put in a LOT of effort.

[Aimee_]

Why you reacted that way? You guys weren’t dating

[TallAnon]

Because she treated me as-if we were really close, then proved that anyone that gives her attention will do

[Aimee_]

And that hurt you. Those are the type of things people need to open up and talk about their feelings instead of walking out and staying mad at them

[TallAnon]

Yeah, I told her that I didn't like it and completely lost interest because of it. I also told her that we were not officially dating so she shouldn't feel bad, but that I was done.
Opening up and staying mad/not staying mad assumes there's something to salvage, but there wasn't. I completely lost interest when I heard she had sex with that guy.

[Aimee_]

Did you like her a lot before that? If so, have you ever liked someone more than her?

[TallAnon]

Our relationship is a lonngggg story.
I was interested in her and she was absurdly obsessed with me at some point (It was bad).
I have definitely liked someone more, but I also liked how much she liked me. That's why her fucking someone else out of nowhere felt even worse.

[Aimee_]

Guess things were meant to be that way

[Anonymous]

Is he the same guy who spat in your mouth while having coitus with you

[Aimee_]

He is

[Opinion Owner]

I am sorry to say this but he is not a geniune guy and will try to control you in every way he can

[Aimee_]

How do you know that?

[Opinion Owner]

Becoz he is doubting you for no reason, going out with another isn't a big thing, you never cheated on him, this means you can't have male friends too coz he will doubt you, if you hangout with your male friends

[Aimee_]

I told him I had sex with another person

[Opinion Owner]

You were honest with him so there is nothing wrong on your part

[Aimee_]

It bothers me so much they way he is acting. Like he doesn’t care to talk to me. Like he doesn’t want to talk things out. Like it’s ok with him.

[Opinion Owner]

If he also liked you geniunely he would have sat down with you talked about his problems or insecurities

[Aimee_]

That it’s true. Very true. He liked me for my body.

[Opinion Owner]

If i geniunely like a girl i would like her for her personality but if i like a girl just for her body then its only lust nothing else

[Aimee_]

Then I don’t know. But it came really clear to me when the next day after having sex he disappeared. Guess he didn’t like it

[Opinion Owner]

Only a shallow person will leave a girl just coz he didn't liked sex with her

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me he isn't worth your time

[Aimee_]

I’m tired of this. Of guys never taking me seriously

[Opinion Owner]

Dont loose hope, the problem is most guys nowdays just prefer hookup culture but it doesn't last very long and by time they realise it isn't working its too late for them to find a geniune gurl like you.
Trust me you'll get the best guy around you coz you are an honest person 🙂

[Aimee_]

He also once told me about a girl he liked that she’s Married now and that’s the hardest thing he has done so far. That hurt me. I remember crying because of that

[Opinion Owner]

Just bcoz he is a guy that doesn't mean he can control you in way, this shows his poor upbringing

[Aimee_]

Why do you think he controls me !

[Opinion Owner]

You can't meet a guy thats kinda controlling

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

it is confusing and makes no sense sorry

[emperor90]

It might mean he is upset

[Dating101Coach]

I’m so confused

[Aimee_]

Guy won’t talk to me because I went out with another guy. I texted him and he asked me what did I want? And why I can’t I leave him alone