What’s going on with him?

[Anonymous]

My close male friend has told me that I'm pretty, cute, or beautiful, but he also seems to imply that guys would just use me or don't really want me. Even when other guys have said I'm attractive, he still makes it seem like no one truly finds me desirable. So to him, I must be ugly, and he's just trying to make me feel better by lying about my appearance. He wanted to date me when I turn 18. He’s 27. When I was younger he said it feel like it was taking to long for me to turn 18.

This has left me feeling really sad and hopeless about ever finding love or even an honest friend or romantic partner. I'm struggling with a lot of insecurity and self-doubt right now.

[serious]

No, he means that you are so beautiful that men will find you sexually attractive so would only want you physically.

It does not mean you are not desirable in a romantic, non-sexual way or in a deeper perspective in the world of love, dating and romance. However, this would depends on how the man sees you from his vision.

If both your personality and physical looks are good then surely there will be a man who will find you desirable beyond your physical looks, beauty.

However, if you are only physically beautiful, gorgeous but your personality is repulsive in many aspects then you know the answer.

You know yourself better so you can decide now what it means

[spartan55]

I truly hope this is a fake post. You need to get away from this guy immediately.

[Asker]

It isn’t fake

[Asker]

I wouldn’t lie about this

[spartan55]

Then get away from this guy. Do your parents know about him?

[Asker]

Yeah my mom she said he’s sick in the head. My uncle said I need to cut him out my life.

[Asker]

Sometimes I feel desperate because I have nobody to talk and that’s why I talked to him about my problems

[spartan55]

I'll assume you are 17 through context in your post. You need to understand that there is nothing normal about the relationship you and that guy have. He is 27, have you ever asked yourself why he wants to hangout with you and not women his own age?

[Asker]

Because women his own age are creep out and teenage girls are creep out also