I had a conversation with my boyfriend where I expressed doubts about our relationship. I suggested that maybe we should just be friends without any romantic involvement. He responded by saying that the decision was up to me. Later on, he asked if I was losing interest, and I admitted that I was somewhat. However, he then contradicted himself by saying that we were good together and that we had a compatible vibe. When I asked him to explain why he felt that way, he couldn't provide a clear answer, but mentioned that there were things we could work on. He also mentioned that if I wanted to end the relationship, he understood and accepted it. I inquired about what specifically we needed to work on, and he mentioned time management and getting to know each other better. However, when I asked him why it was important to get to know him better, he didn't have a clear response. He then asked me if i wanted to be in a relationship with him, to which I said no because I found him too difficult to deal with and didn't see a future together. I also expressed the belief that he was only interested in sex. Despite all this, I asked if we could still remain friends, and he agreed. I asked him if he thought I should have made more of an effort to work things out, and he said yes, mentioning that he could have tried as well. When I asked him why we should try, he simply stated that we were a couple. I then asked about his intentions, to which he responded by asking about mine, and he never provided a clear answer. I lost interest in him because I suspect he's cheating and he frequently lies and plays games. He tried to justify his behavior by saying that getting on my nerves was his way of expressing love, but I found that unacceptable.
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Ok, sorry for an indelicate question, but are the two of you having sex? I ask this because sometimes "get to know you better" can be sort of a polite shorthand for "have sex". If he's your age or older and he's been in this relationship for more than a few months and it's not sexual, yeah, he's about done.
We never had sex
Yeah, I thought so. He probably views this relationship as not going anywhere. He's not 15 and if it doesn't seem like you're going to get there, he ready to move on. Let it go.
You lost interest in him, and I lost interest in you. Do you have something against starting a new paragraph?
What you mean?
If you break the points you are trying to make up into smaller segments and separate them, it makes it much easier for the reader to follow.
Its too late now
I would rewrite it but people would think I’m trolling
That's probably true. Maybe you would consider it for future questions?
Yes next time
Thank you.
You claiming anyone is 'difficult to deal with' is high comedy coming from you.
How is that funny?
Because you seem the same way.
Same way of what?
Difficult to deal with.
Well he won’t communicate so I told him it’s over