What is up with him?

[Anonymous]

So I'm dating this guy and whenever i'm like not in the mood to do it , he gets upset and leaves or ignores me the rest of the night. He literally randomly picks fight, like i understand that my facial expressions can be mislead but rolling my eyes doesn't mean i'm always mad or when i suddenly go formal in the way i speak which i attach a joking tone too. I don't know if his ex traumatized him or something but like i very much cherish peace and dont believe in the picking fights thing. Another thing is i can't like dress comfortable to talk to him his attention strays like if i dont wear a bra and we're talking and i ask him what i just said he's like blank. I can't wear shorts either thats even worse. It got to the point where i would have him sit around a tabl so it felt like a freaking conference. I don't mind him touching me but like watch ur hands when u see me doing something important. Then when i get irritated he just walks off like whats up with that am i not allowed to be upset. And even when i'm not thats when he decides to ask me y i'm mad when i'm not then goes on to say if ur not gonna tell me y ur mad then i'm not gonna pester you about it. Then I get irritated but i just hold it in and ask jesus for strength does he have bipolar disorder or something. One minute he's like diamond tier boyfriend material and then the next he's that freaking peice of rusty metal at the button of a lake. Like sir pick a struggle. no offense to the bipolar people.

[britishbby]

I havnt read it all but women need to understand that men's body's are different, chemically were made to fuck and whoremoans are mental and make us horny when u say no (which is fine by the way) it can get us down cuz it makes us feel as though you're not attracted or not good enough for u and that our self worth is fuck all because we can't do the one thing out body was made to do. And it sounds primative but it's the same as a period just in horny fashion, girls get pains and angry or sad and all emotional during a period or pregnant mens version of that because of testosterone and such is us being extremely horny and emotional just in a different way. This doesn't mean u have to have sex it's ur right but understand he's sad cuz of whoremoans the same way you might eat a dub of ice cream alone cuz of a period

[Asker]

I get that but there is a time and place, last time he did it was in a zoom interview what if my camera was on. Had to tell them it was the water bottle.

[britishbby]

Then u need to have a chat with him and make it clear, I mean i agree in a zoom call he should know... But maybe he doesn't get it. I'd make it clear and everything

[Anonymous]

That’s a lot to deal with for someone who not your boyfriend. Even in general would you let someone treat you like that? He’s not seeing your worth and neither are you.