I had LDR turkish / german boyfriend whom I have broke up with because he started being creepy (sending in whatsapp meat cutting tools, asking for my 2 year old niece’s hair). I broke up with him over a text and blocked him everywhere. I did that 2-3 days before my trip to meet him. Few weeks later he tried to contact me via email and I saw it 2 weeks later. Then I pointed out I did what I did because he was starting to be creepy and I felt unsafe and I did tell him that before but he neglected my feelings.
He apologized a lot about his stupid jokes and wanted us to go back to how we were but I told him better to just stay friends.
Then he started saying few things that hurt my feelings:
- His reputation would have been ruined if I came to football match with him because I wear headscarf and people know him there. He was the one who invited me to a football match when we were talking initially.
- he said I would have made live in a prison because of my religion. He knew where I stand on this and he was on board initially.
- he can’t not have sex. I asked him before if he’s willing to wait for me because I can’t have sex without marriage. He agreed and understood, but now he changed his mind.
I have discussed with him all of these and he was on board suddenly he changed his mind in everything. Contradicting himself, he wants us to be like we used to but he can’t keep up with my religion.
How can I forget this whole awful experience?
I am so hurt when he said I would have made him live in jail. I would have offered him love, care, respect.
He apologized a lot about his stupid jokes and wanted us to go back to how we were but I told him better to just stay friends.
Then he started saying few things that hurt my feelings:
- His reputation would have been ruined if I came to football match with him because I wear headscarf and people know him there. He was the one who invited me to a football match when we were talking initially.
- he said I would have made live in a prison because of my religion. He knew where I stand on this and he was on board initially.
- he can’t not have sex. I asked him before if he’s willing to wait for me because I can’t have sex without marriage. He agreed and understood, but now he changed his mind.
I have discussed with him all of these and he was on board suddenly he changed his mind in everything. Contradicting himself, he wants us to be like we used to but he can’t keep up with my religion.
How can I forget this whole awful experience?
I am so hurt when he said I would have made him live in jail. I would have offered him love, care, respect.
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Just forget, and Move on, good couse u discovered all these Red flags on Time and Not when would have been Too Late! 🤷♂️
He was bitter so he said stuff that hurt u I don't see why u even continued to talk to him to be honest
I missed the attention I got from him
U missed the attention u got from a creep that u ended things with and then was suprised he said mean things
Move on and talk to me. I would go for marriage If we do match