Is it bad if I declined holding his hand on the first date as it’s too soon even though we kissed?

[anonbrunette99]

[EmbraceThePain]

You didn’t want to hold his hand?


Yet you kissed on the first date


The fuck is up with that?

[anonbrunette99]

I just felt hand holding is different what if I seen someone I know I just met him that day and if we hold hands to others it looks as though we’re in a relationship or a couple

[spartan55]

That would be our only date. Very weird

[jahaims]

How is hand holding more intimate than kissing..

[anonbrunette99]

Because to others holding hands makes it look like we where a couple which we aren’t we just met, what if I seen someone I knew they’d be thinking that’s my new boyfriend when in reality I just met him that day

[jahaims]

They won't think that if they see you kiss? Your priorities are whack. If your actions are based on what others think you will have an empty life.

[devoygf]

yeah it is