How to ask a guy to come home with you after a date?

[Anonymous]

Im going on a date with a guy and we already went on 2 and kissed so I would really like to spend the night with him. What excuse can I use for him to come upstairs with me? How do you guys like to be asked?

[charlietom]

Okay, assuming you mean you want to initiate sex with him and NOT have an overnight cuddle sesh, I propose you invite him back to your place and hang out on the couch. At some point, kiss him and swivel to sit on his lap, facing him. Mack down on the man, go for the neck, and put your hands 1-2 inches under his shirt. When you notice he's got wood, grab his face, look him in the eyes and say "I want you so bad right now. Do you want to go upstairs?"

Personally, my go-to to get a man in my room without saying HEY LETS DO A SEX is to reference a book I have and say "come on I'll show you." Take him upstairs, show him the book collection, I'll sit on my bed and chat until he sits next to me. Then I initiate roughly the above plan.

[Asker]

girl u goood
deff trying this out!

[MrtoddsWildRide]

I love when a woman initiates. If she ever said "Hey lets do a sex" I would probably run.
You seem to have a perfect approach

[PositiveNote]

Wow, if you were with me, here are some lines that would work most times:
1. Would you like to look at my new tire iron I just bought? it may be a little too big?
2. Can I give you a tour of my apartment? I only have until I leave for work at 7am.
3. Do you shower at night? If so, I have one with two towels.
4. I have this problem, can you help? My cat is stuck under my bed and I can't get her out.
5. Could I try something out on you? I've always wanted to recite poetry to a guy while only wearing a chemise.

... hope this helps!

[charlietom]

Omg #4 is making me think of "Help me step bro I'm stuck under the bed!!"

[PositiveNote]

@charlietom LOL!

[spartan55]

Can girls ever just be direct about anything? One time?

[AndrésC64]

Just ask him if he'd like to come in and have a drink or talk.

[Anonymous]

Just ask him if he wants to get some.

[Asker]

Such a cheap approach... was looking for something fancier tbh