Am I toxic if I don't know how to handle my crush taking interest in me and I am running away from him?

[Anonymous]

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• Ok so it's about me... I have a crush on this guy for like a few years and I am not ready for commitment and I know that somehow he is also interested but don't make any move cause his best friend has a crush on me. So the matter is that the mixed signals from his side make me sick so I decided to block him and after few days I unblocked him and sent a request but he didn't accept it and now he made his account public for a day I don't know why but now I don't have courage to follow him and I don't need any commitment but I can't stop thinking about him and also because of this I am not able to focus on any other thing so yeah...

[Anonymous]

It's totally ok to not be ready.

Just enjoy your crush for yourself and dont be in a rush to grow up.

Just remember that you dont really know this guy and its unlikely that he will ever live up to your expectations (you fantasy isn't a real person, he is what you want him to be. Real people are flawed) but thats ok, you will love again etc but thats all down the road a bit for now.

[TommyMountainFigure]

The bottom line is you aren't ready for a relationship so stick him on ignore permanently and be strict with yourself. It won't take long before you are able to focus on what really matters in your life.

[Avicenna]

Maybe not toxic, but avoidant and insecure.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you have some issues you need to fix.

[In_Trance]

Oh boi...