Is that a good thing?

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Is it a good thing, when and a guy had a argument, and haven’t texted for 3 weeks! So u reach out to him with “hey😕 hope you’re okay, I didn’t like the way we left things last time.” And his respond was “yeah my bad about that.” Is that a good respond?

GreenLanternI0I · Accepted Answer

A good word of advice, use an old fashion method that is being used for 1000's of years. Instead of texting, ask him if he wants to call you so you guys can talk or vice versa. His voice and the way he speaks will tell you absolutely everything you need to know and you can ask him all the questions that bothering you. I'm 34 I grew up in an era where texting took off and became extremely popular, but you know what, even to this very day I HATE it, because texting is emotionless and fake. There is no true feelings attached to it, there is no true in the moment response. As I said before ask him to call you or vice versa and talk to him about everything that happened before.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Well its not a bad respones... but it seems that you were expecting more, which tells me you two are meant to be.

I mean he said my bad, which equivalent to O am sorry. Just let the past go and move on with it, but if your still holding on to past arguments... then just let this go on without.

You'd be better off investing your time in finding someone that will truly make you happy. Because when to people meet and get together and really vibe, they make as easy as possible to be happy together... this doesn't sound anything like easy to me.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

So, do you think it's good because of what he didn't do (block you, etc.), or because of what he did do. Kinda casually he said "My bad". Sounds like he needed to say something, so he said that. I'm trying to picture a guy that says that the way he did. Does he just have a so-so personality and not very outgoing and happy? I think you'll just have to hide and watch to see what becomes of this. Could go either way. But hey, it's not all up to him, you have a say so about how you want it to go too. 🌹

rockytherock · Accepted Answer

it's neutral, like someone said he's probably still bummed out about it. Just make sure he knows you won't shed all the blame on him and you don't want this to get in the way of your friendship/relationship. Also let him know you'd give him space if needed.

Interstate · Answer

He basically is saying he feels badly about your disagreement, as well. So I would say you two are steadily getting back on track. Maybe ask him about getting together sometime so you two can move on.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Yes
Ask him out. Make something in a joking manner.

"Hey, you wanna go out tonight and get fat, maybe for pizza or icecream?🙃"

It's good if you move away from the past tension, no need to dwell on it or discuss it right now.

kellytheman · Answer

I am not sure it seems like he just responded just to respond but sounds like he kinda still hung up about the argument. Maybe if a apologized with something more genuine or original it be okay but saying my bad is not really a good thing. I could be wrong maybe that's how he talks or text so it's kinda hard if he really care just from a text.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

It sounds like you threw out an olive branch and he accepted it. That's always a good thing. Of course things haven't been talked about since the argument so there is plenty of work to do to make things right, but you are both on the right path.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

Why are young girls so bloody clueless these days? Just call him directly and talk to him to see how it goes. You'll know better then because texts are ambiguous and can be taken in so many ways. Voices or body language is a better way to judge.

TrueConfection · Answer

Yes, he's talking responsibility. He's ready to talk.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

A good thing is that you two try to "clear the air" about whatever happened, you don't blame each other, you simply accept that you aren't meant for each other, and you go your separate ways at peace.

mark000h · Answer

Sounds pretty good to me, but I'd wonder why he didn't reach out sooner.

Godsvengeance · Answer

If he was intentionally trying to avoid you, he would have ignored your text so the fact that he replied at all shows that he still has at least some interest

HollyK21 · Answer

Not sure why I keep getting invited to these questions of yours lol but I don't know, that isn’t enough to know whether it’s good or bad. I guess see where a conversation goes.

exitseven · Answer

yes, it is a good respond. It shows that he is sorry.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

Honestly he sounds like an immature little boy. He could at least say I'm sorry would have been a lot better.

DesiUwU · Answer

Hahah  no  try talking to him and engaging him in a convo, and if he doesn’t sound engaged in it then just leave it tbh.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Definitely a good thing. I think you did the right thing. Sounds like it worked out okay.

Massageman · Answer

At least he's saying SOMEthing back. Please do try to get together to have at least a brief discussion to definitely yay or nay the relationship and go from there.

Apulu_3 · Answer

If you call him then you will know if he is really feeling guilty or is being sarcastic.

Dragonpurple · Answer

I would say you lucked out, seems like a good thing to me.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Well, at least some communication is taking place between the two

Raaj4you · Answer

Yes it is. If you both are serious about the relationship, it doesn't matter who calls or texts first. Don't wait too long if you are really interested.

TheAfrikan · Answer

You need yo set up sometime that you 2 can meet and talk. Abd once he agrees on it, but fails to show up you then chill running after him for his heart.

loveslongnails · Answer

No. The fact that he said it was "his bad" and didn't say anything for 3 weeks tells you all you need to know.

TheSpartan · Answer

It's a good response. I say be humble, take some responsibility for the disagreement (even if not warranted), and forgive him for whatever happened.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

He took responsibility for his own part of it and he apologized.

steveRogers12 · Answer

It means the door might be cracked open if you want to try something again

Omissis · Answer

Yes it is, and he porbably was too proud and stupid to admit it soon and text you before 3 weeks

Flower7 · Answer

Yeah, sounds good to me.

Alex_201 · Answer

Yeah, it's alright, he still gives you the opportunity to try something if you want. Could be that he is waiting for you to try a bit harder

AncientWisdom · Answer

No you left him cooking to long , sounds like to me. There should have been more of a conversation. I could be wrong but sounds like he’s done.

clampfan101 · Answer

That doesn’t sound expressive enough to make any assumptions.

NathanDavis · Answer

that sure is a step forward...

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

That’s a good response

msc545 · Answer

It is probably all response you are going to get - he is angry at you.

fireforeffect · Answer

Other than the poor use of English, I believe that what he was trying to convey was good.

Anonymous · Answer

It actually looks like he isn't interested in talking to you. I mean, if he knew it was his fault, why would he wait 3 weeks to text you (or even worse, for you to text him)?

AmandaYVR · Answer

It's a tepid apology.

Hangry06 · Answer

That's bad. It's over

Curmudgeon · Answer

Yes it is. Don't overthink it.

Citizenkirk · Answer

He responded, that's good 😎👍

Wester1967 · Answer

Yes. Hope springs eternal

spartan55 · Answer

It's a nothing respond.

XXblack88 · Answer

I don't know sounds like it could be sarcasm.

Shark_61695 · Answer

If Meatloaf taught us anything, don't do "that".

Throwdownxxx · Answer

Just fucking call him and stop texting him.

WhatMeow · Answer

I would say that that is a good response from him

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes did you contact him yet? Good idea

JonAsk69 · Answer

Yes, it’s definitely a good thing.

whosnumber1 · Answer

hey! maybe some makeup sex!

Bdsmaster · Answer

Sure luv sounds good to me

Shy_Steve · Answer

Yes, Depends if you still like him or not.

Yellovv · Answer

Seem like he is upset to you..

Anonymous · Answer

Go to his house and stalk him

Honestguyopen · Answer

Yes I think so

Waldoe · Answer

maybe, maybe not...

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

pingas + Tushi

Jouth · Answer

oh my godddd

Sabretooth · Answer

maybe... maybe not.

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