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Why do older men (35+) think that they’re desirable to beautiful young women in their prime? (Page 2)
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18 is still young and I’m all for age gaps but I think at that age it’s best to be with someone close to your age. A lot of Guys just try and see what they can get.
I always thought guys were hottest in their 30s though so I’m sure there are other girls out there that think that too.
Yeah honestly I think it's a little weird for an 18 year old to date a 30+ year old even though the 18 year old is of legal age.
Because women show it to be true.
https://www.marketwatch.com/story/women-online-daters-peak-at-age-18-men-peak-at-50-2018-08-17
The facts of human nature are that the characteristics that make men desirable to women increase with age while the ones that make women desirable to men decrease with age. Just human nature, that's all.
Stats say otherwise but okay
What stats? I posted the largest study ever done on the subject. Can you please point me to the stats you are referring to?
You can look at the stats yourself. If 85% of couples worldwide have at max a three age gap, that says a lot.
I'm going to assume the fact you won't post your sources is because you can't find any to support your argument.
I’ll be honest, I’m about to get laid and typing this from my phone so my focus is a little off. You can either use your fingers to Google the stats or you can wait a couple hours and I’ll get back to ya <3
Well, I just got laid and I'm content to wait. Take your time.
@Opinion Owner, There is proof that a man's prime is late 20s to mid 30s
Male desirability to women peaks in the late 20s and does not fall below the average for all men until 36.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness
@shaysh87 For women, physical attractiveness and desirability are not the same things.
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...ancy-rich-men-more.html
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conroy-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
en.m.wikipedia.org/.../Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
Most men marry women younger than they are; with the difference being between two and three years in Spain, the UK reporting the difference to be on average about three years, and the US, two and a half.
Muslims have the widest spousal age gap (6.6 years between men and their wives or partners), followed by Hindus (5.6 years), Christians (3.8), Buddhists (2.9), the religiously unaffiliated (2.3) and Jews (2.1).
www.pewresearch.org/.../
Where are the statistics that show women are marrying men 15-20 years older?
In 2020, the average age of marriage for female participants was 31, while male respondents married at age 33.
www.theknot.com/.../average-age-of-marriage
There’s certainly no evidence that guys in their 50s are more popular amongst women if women are marrying guys less than 10 years older on average. The average age of marriage also being 33 for men instead of 50
Because some girls have daddy issues (obviously not the ones in your sorority) and some older guys are kinda hot.
Also older guys in general are better in bed and more willing to focus on your clit (though there are some talented younger guys out there).
At least I know you’re really in college by your use of the phrase “false narrative” 😊
That’s 20%. But it’s cool 😊.
Was it 5% or 48 out of 240 because it cannot be both. 5% of 240 is 12 and 48 is 20% of 240.
I doubt you have 240 people living in one sorority house.
More guys 35+ in age don't want someone in their 20s compared to those that do.
No only 40 people live in the house but there’s more members that life out of the house. That’s how it typically works with sororities and frats at large university…
Also thanks for the correction for the math. I updated as soon as I woke up and was still out of it lol.
I didn't read anything but the title.
Because they are desirable.
Stats say otherwise lol
Lol shut the fuck up 😅
You commented on my post sweetheart. Not the other way around😇
You're the one with the mile long post, sweetheart. 😊
And I’ll type it all again baby😘
Ok waste your time then shit dick 😂😂 I'm not the one retyping it or reading it
But you’re the one who took the time out of your sorry ass day to reply to it didn’t you? That’s what I thought sweetheart❤️
Actually I'm having a great day, sweetheart. Sounds like you're the pathetic one. Can't even go public, have to stay anon 🤣
You should think about staying anon with that ugly ass profile picture lmao. Keep replying I can go all day.
I'm sure you can, you have no life. But I'm not a dipshit so I'm leaving 😊 also, lady Dimitrescu is gorgeous, hence why everyone simps for her. You just jealous hoe 🤣
Is that why I’ve never heard of her lmao. I’ll do you a favor. Whenever these old ass men try to talk to me like they always do, I’ll send them a link to your profile. I’m sure you’re desperate enough for their attention as it obviously sounds like your own father didn’t love you. Xoxo💋
They figure if you don’t ask you don’t get. Every once in a while they meet a lonely young woman and... There are a lot of middle-aged single men who don’t hit on very yong women, but they are invisible to you.
They feel they are established, aka money, career and maturity and they think that's what all women desire.
A guy with a ready made home, money and career.
I mean generally speaking people go downhill after 20y so? Becomes fat ugly la y and stupid, stop learning and disgusting pigs mufoo, look at disgusting feminist shit fuking gross in their 20 already
So basically celebrities dont get chased by girls at all and its all just paid actors? Come on!
Perfect example females lie, telling one thing but in reality act differently, thry stand in lines amd fight eachother just to suck guys dick cus his so famous.
Oh , I could see why his balls dropping would be a big deal. Men's balls don't drop as much as women's boobs. Besides we look better as we age , women don't and talk about wrinkles. Men don't get face and butt lifts.
You don’t look better as you age lol. Not one bit.
Yeah younger men look better I mean even ancient greek ataturk portray young strong men. But people care way too much about looks...
@NorthAfrican Well physical attraction is important. Looks aren’t everything but they matter. Behind sex and money, dwindling attraction is a big motivator for divorce. When your partner starts losing themselves or starts to have drastic changes in looks, it’s easy for the eyes to glance elsewhere.
I agree with you looks are important I never dated an ugly man and all men i date are my age but what i mean is both my looks and my man's looks will fade with time but that doesn't mean the love will fade away because looks is just one element from the wider picture!
Some guys look better after they get a few miles on it but a lot have just been sitting on a bar stool for the last ten years and they are sort of pathetic.
Accually its not the men usually that envelope the relations to began with. Im sure there's a few that try but those young women you genrally see with older men have quite a different story to tell rather than your question.
I slept with some 35+ men in my early 20s. They were really good in bed and uninhibited. Not all caught up in dumb sex rules like guys in their early twenties. They were fantastic!
Seems like you met some douches in your early 20s because I’ve never had this issue. If anything it’s more comfort to be with someone close in age than having sex with someone who’s probably closer in age than your dad. Unless that’s your thing…
I've met douches of every age. If I were to sleep with someone closer in age to my father, my father still has nothing to do with it. It is a fact that men and women become less inhibited with experience as well as being more skilled. If you like sleeping with people close to you in age then do that. You couldn't understand why someone your age would go older. I tried to explain it from my perspective. I guess you just wanted to express your disgust as opposed to actually finding out why someone would like that. Happy sexing!
You just said so yourself if they were rich, you would date em
Yeah if he’s Chris Evans
Yea ok golddigger
Lmao but it’s okay for old guys to try to wave their money in a young girl’s face because they know they have no other attractive qualities? And that’s fine right but if a young girl wants to use a old man for his money it’s goldigging? Fuck off.
And honestly Chris Evans could be dirt poor. She’s intelligent and hot so I wouldn’t care. I love him.
I don't care. Fuck old guys if you want. Eat their ass if you want. Eat their money if you want
Nah I’m good. I’ll do that with hot young guys instead.
@truthbringer- look who’s back.
I laughed through this entire work of fiction.
Fiction? Statistics say otherwise but believe in whatever lie you can to boost your ego!
OK, Nella/Ayana, etc. You laid it on a bit too thick with the pepper spray and taser rubbish.
Pampered, arrogant women with the maturity level of 12 year olds aren’t attractive to men 35+.
And the only one who‘s looking for an ego boost here is you.
That’s not my name lol. And my friend literally just tased a 45 year old man who sexually assaulted her after she rejected him because he got checked. Women who actually want a future and value life don’t want old ass washed up men. Just truth and stats show that. Old men are not desirable. Old sperm is literally linked to creating kids with mental disorders. Sorry to tell you, but you’re not hot shit like you think you are.
Oh, I think it's obvious who thinks she's hot shit. And your dupe accounts all post the same nonsense.
Here's what you're too clueless to know- most men are at their peak attractiveness in their 30s, some even later. And women start outnumbering us around age 38 or 39. Plus everyone knows older men have much lower rates of violent crime.
Okay so someone didn’t read my post. Peak attractiveness is gray hairs, balding, dad bods, and wrinkles. Now I’ll say, for some guys like Chris Evans, they are still attractive in old age. But you know the difference between Chris Evans and normal men? He’s rich and hasn’t let himself go. That’s not the case of an average old man on the street whatsoever.
But this isn’t an argument. Again, the proof is in the statistics regarding dating. If older men were so desired, the maximum average age gap between 85% of couples in the world wouldn’t be three years. It would be much larger and young women would be doing anything to get an older man but they’re not. And you know that. A lower crime rate isn’t going to overlook all the faults that come with an old man when there’s young men who are stronger, taller, more attractive, have more potential, and still have a spark of youth to them. Sorry.
Wrinkles in their 30s? I doubt most men have them. I don't have them now. But the more you post, the more arrogant you confirm you are. And that's a huge turn-off at any age.
And this is yet another dupe account of yours. You aren't even creative enough to vary the narcissistic garbage you post.
Again, stats say otherwise. Not gonna keep conversating with someone who chooses to live in denial because their ego is frail and they think they still got it when they don’t. Age has many advantages but being attractive to majority of young people is not one. Don’t even know why this is something you’re worried about. Focusing on your retirement fund would be a better subject to ponder on. Have a good night!
You seem to have plenty of time to argue strawmen. But I'd advise you to worry about how you're going to pay off those huge student loans you're accruing to get a degree in Grievance Studies.
35 year old men are NOT older... lol you are such a "Child" men in thier 30's are just starting to be mature... Grown assed men... under 30 they are still pussy-hounds
Yes they are old. Be real.
I’m sure at 71 they aren’t old to you
I disagree. I think older men are so hot! My boyfriend's 34 and he's amazing. I couldn't imagine being with a guy my age. They're just too immature for me
Lmao
I like how her response was just a trite and terse attempt at putting you down. Nothing of actual substance.
@JSmuve I know. It's kinda sad but some girls are like that. Best to just ignore them.
I didn’t put her down I just laughed
Mmmmm... Even though I've aged well and take very good care of myself - most people think I'm about 28-32, the youngest I'd consider dating is about 30. Though I have dated +10 years as well.
I would assume it is because they see those women with unattractive, jobless, rude men with no ambition or drive... flacid from prescription abuse and figure they have a chance..
What makes you think that they think that they are desirable? It seems to me that they think you are attractive, and just figure that they might as well give it a shot.
That’s probably because the ones you’re referring to were never desirable to begin with even in their teens and 20’s.
That’s actually a good point I hadn’t thought about. Like others have mentioned, it might just be a numbers game for them. Ask a million times and maybe someone will say yes.