My gut reaction is that attractiveness is not the only metric in choosing partners. Females mature faster than males, so dating up is beneficial in that way. But eventually that completely neutralizes and there's no disparity anymore. (It depends on how they were parented and what their home life was/is like, too.)
You might be onto something a bit, though, with the pedo idea. Older guys asking 'What's the legal age in [wherever they live]?' is disgusting. Some guys will say that's only about youthful fertility, and will cite marriages starting around 14 being 'normal' (i. e. a good idea) in prior human history. It also accompanies some darker aspects - of paedophilia at its worst, but also an inequality and disparity in not wanting your equal, but someone who they can can tower over, both physically and psychologically, with all their knowledge and experience about the world. Some men do not want women who are intellectual and experienced equal, who challenge them. Passivity and wide-eyed deference is much easier.
I actually think women label these men as creepy and pedo so they can feel better about themselves actually.
Once they are past that age, they use this as a shaming tactic to keep viable men around for them. I'm 34, and women much younger than me are always interested. I am mature, make good money, and men sometimes get better looking with age, happened with me. If you found a good guy and married him, why would you care if men like younger women? Because you are single, and aren't young anymore.
Would I seriously date someone younger than 24, probably not. But I can definetely say that younger women are more attractive physically. I just wouldn't be able to connect mentally.
What is the problem with men liking younger women? If you don't like older men, you don't have to date one.
Younger women who like old men usually are gold digger dumb drug addict and their body count is very high or daddy issues at least based on my experience.
How is liking younger women grooming? I can see younger women are hotter, without pursuing them or manipulating them. Also, it's only "grooming" if you are talking to these women before they are 18. If you are pursuing a woman over 18, they are adults. They can do what they want.
And that's fine. If you don't like it, ignore those men. And find one that likes women his own age. Noone can stop someone from finding them attractive, and shooting their shot.
You say women don't like older men, but they do. They don't date men younger than them on average. Is also doesn't really effect you, if men want what they want.
See you really just want to hear what you want to hear, you don't really want an honest answer. You just want too blame men for whatever, and argue. Why do you care so much? Have you ever thought about that?
Men blame some women for being gold digger but most women won't date a men for money while most creepy old men trt to groom young girls so who should be shamed and blamed?
You're right, men are bad. Women are great and much better. If the world was ran by women, there would be no war and everyone would only fuck those of approved age ranges. lol
Well, you might have some insider information but tell that to all the potential jailbait that hits on me. Explain to the 16-to-20 (don’t know her age) that grabbed my hand handing me rental car keys and asked me to take her to the State Fair that weekend e. g.. Then tell those other ones, that giggle around me and stare at me with their foot fidgeting. Also, let the early 20 something’s that attempt to cleverly (but blatantly obviously) manipulate a date out of me. This stuff is all relative and you have your perspective and opinions; however, that is all they are.
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some woman have daddy issues they probably want to date you for more (they probably have high body count and actually come from poor family and usually get bad grades and working in some dead end job and they have bad relationship with their father and probably do weeds literally only low quality girls like old men.
you won't see a ivy League girl who have rich parents and good relationship with her parents trying to hit on a old men why would she? she don't have any reason to do it
I don't think any of you understand what pedophilia or grooming actually is. I know you like to throw those around but they are very serious, criminal, and abusive acts that you are alleging just cuz you feel bitter, jealous, or prejudiced towards other grown ass adults who date outside your personal approval.
When you call men groomers for an age gap, you're alleging they're in it to manipulate/indoctrinate their partner against their better judgement and self-interest into an abusive relationship for dominance & control. When you call them pedos, you allege they are only attracted to a younger woman out of some closeted desire to diddle little children (what the actual f--). You are also denying the woman's basic autonomy to informed consent by treating them like children who can't make independent choices for themselves.
Do you understand how sexist and unhinged that looks like? If two consenting adults are happy together, then whatever floats their boat. Mind your own business, it doesn't affect your life in any way and complaining just makes you look jealous and bitter. Let them live their life and worry more about living yours. There's a whole world out there with plenty of grass to touch.
I must be in the minority here since my chart for the second one would start at 15 and the woman's age would be 33. It would just increase in increments from there. Although good to know that men don't reach peak physical attractiveness to woman until late 20s-early 40s. Got a few years left at that one.
I don't know. I don't think that younger women are attractive these days. Too often those I have seen are empty headed, have high body counts, curse, get drunk, wear thongs and the like, tattoo and/or pierce their bodies, or seek oral sex.
Young women want to fuck Chad Thundercock who is younger and is banging his way through all of your friends; but they want an older/wealthier guy to pay for things.
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but tha why average age gap in 3 year in USA 1.8 year in Uk and Wales 1.2 year in Japan?
I was talking about average age gap in marriage so you are telling me that they're dating old men so he can pay for things but they're cheating on him with chad?
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