I asked what are we? Is he playing me?

[Anonymous]

I asked him “what are we?” To define the relationship he said “we can be whatever you want us to be.” Then another time said he wants a relationship. Is he playing me? How to know he is serious l?

[TonyV]

Stop asking him such vague questions, why do girls ask such vague questions? Ask him what you want to know, make it a yes no question, ask something more like are you serious about this relationship? Do you plan on marrying me some day?
Don't be surprised if he wants to break it off tho, constantly asking him what he's after, or doubting his intentions comes across as insecure and also you're basically calling him unfaithful, so really stop playing your games with these annoying vague questions and ask what you want to know.

[spartan55]

Sounds like he is talking out of both sides of his mouth.

[JoyGirl]

*sighs*
Tell him to make it clear to you. If he doesn’t, then dip.

[Wise4myage]

If I had to guess, Id say he is only into casual sex.