I only get to see my boyfriend 1 or 2 nights a week and I usually sleep over and leave at 8am. Because it's long distance and he has teens.
Once every 2 months he leaves a weekend open for us and we have a Saturday night date.
He doesn't hang out with me that Friday or Sunday most the time. He says he's catching up with friends, seeing family etc Because he's never here.
I'm not used to this type of relationship I usually would spend the entire weekend with boyfriends.
We've been together a long time.
He hates clingy people.
He's indian.
I know he loves me but is this player behavior or cultural distancing of himself?
I don't go to him because he has teenagers.
Or am I being used
What are your thoughts on this?
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Meaning u think he's a player?
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Sounds like he getting his 🎂 and eating it too 🍰.
Meaning u think I'm being played?
It seems like it. I’m not there to feel the vibe though!!
Sounds like it, yes! I was leaning “NO” until you mentioned that he leaves ONE weekend open for you every TWO MONTHS, and STILL doesn't have time for you when you are there, but would rather “catch-up” with friends, which is something he could easily do on any of the SIXTY days that you are NOT there! You need to gather some courage and self esteem, and talk to him seriously. Tell him exactly how you feel, and exactly what you want. If he cannot promise you that he will work to meet your most basic needs, then you need to end it! But always talk with HIM first rather than just take the advice of strangers online!