Do guys like confident women? What if a girl asks you out- how would you feel?

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Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

It is great, then I don't have to guess if they are interested in me, I have always been pretty clueless in that department.
I lived in Calf for a while, and I was surprised that women asked me to dance etc.
I finally asked one why she asked me, that back home that never happened, and she said I looked like I was having fun, getting into the music etc.
She said most of the guys were just standing there in their pose, trying to look cool, and I was just bouncing to the music having fun.
So of course I had to dance with them.
It was great!

rabbitzzz · Accepted Answer

Confident guys like confident woman.
When I was in high school if a girl asked me out it would have been a normal matter.

Now if a beautiful woman asks me out my spidy senses will go up high alert to be careful if I will be robbed. I would have to know her more.

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

I’ve only ever been asked out twice, and I’ve been in a lot of relationships. I always get impatient waiting for the guy to get the confidence to ask, so I do it for him. Guys seem to like when I ask them out so I guess some of them like confident women.

Sarahr123 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn’t ask. I wait for the men to come to me cos the egg doesn’t swim to the sperm.

stark04 · Answer

Personally I like confident women. I feel more comfortable and safer with confident girl, not that I'm afraid of anyone it just feels like being in safer environment when the girl is in charge. if she asks me out, we'd be having lot more fun than normal date. I really enjoy being on date with straightforward lady.

yug_a_tsuj · Answer

Like confident women. But don't mix them up.. if you are playing fully independent game, and you are basically telling guy from the first moment you don't need him (like at all), he will not be interested for long

Guys need purpose in relationship

Being confident and asking him out is cool though

Adam1978 · Answer

Confident is good, pushy or bitchy is not. So it is really about how you act. If you are so confident that you turn arrogant it will also be a problem. So knowing what you want is good but you must still respect and value him and what he wants.

InferiorElegy · Answer

I'd be happy but I'd realize very quickly this could be a prank because it's already happened before and I felt like walking into traffic and I'd rather not go through that again. I have better chances of being mailed in my car on the way to work by a dragon, than any girl asking me out and it not being a prank.

SkinTeethHairNails · Answer

I’d be flattered and pleased. I’ve had a few women make the first move on me in the past. What I find hilarious is how they react if I reject them. They get super irate and nasty and call me a few names lol. Sorry but I’m not going to go out with just anybody.

HighlyVolatile · Answer

No. I ask you out. But you can ask me to ask you out. If a girl asks me out, I'll turn the tables if I'm interested. I'll pick her up and I'll decide where we go. And I pay for it. But I protect you, you don't protect me.

TheorionMage · Answer

I'd be impressed and expect she KNEW what she was getting into. Let her set unambiguous boundaries... and NOT make unannounced revisions on the fly! Pray tell, Madame... what are YOUR intentions?

ACR130 · Answer

Funny question because the only men I can think that would get mad or offended would be the republicans haha. Democrats in the other hand don't care, you can be confident and ask a guy out if you want. They will respect it. I feel like republican men fear a confident women because they won't take shit from them nor would they be able to manipulate them

Avicenna · Answer

We usually like confident women. I generally don’t turn down women who ask me out if I am single. I think women should be rewarded for making the effort.

Teresa435435454 · Answer

Take it from a 31 year old female; guys always ditched me for confident women. Guys love and prefer confident women-

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

They're sexy AF, but I don't like arrogant women. That's what women say about guys right? "Oh he should be confident but not up his own ass." it cuts both ways.

Lynx122 · Answer

I'd feel happy but I can't guarantee that I'd like her back of course. But I'd give it a shot for sure.

MTC29 · Answer

I not only like confident women, but I also seek them. I've been asked out by women a few times, and I had no problem with it.

libsaretards · Answer

9/10 times if a woman musters the confidence to ask me out first, I will give her a chance, even if I am not seeking a relationship and if she is not too far outside my typical type.

RawIronhide · Answer

I'd be shocked and flattered and think something like "finally a woman with a backbone, maybe I'll marry this one."

Lionman95 · Answer

I would like that because I´m never if a woman likes me or spends time with me because she has no better options.

Waldoe · Answer

I would feel like shaving and taking a shower... putting on some cologne and shining my shoes... where are we going? nevermind I don't care where... all I care about is... she likes me... OR... no thanks, I'm washing my hair that night...

Shy_Steve · Answer

I get intimidated by Confident Women like a lot of other Guys who are Shy but I still want to get approached, So if She gets him alone and is really nice to him and asks him out then She already has a 60% chance of him saying "Yes".

Kreneman · Answer

I love a woman with confidence and I welcome for a woman to ask me out (That is what my fiance did. Lol).

Sonorous · Answer

I admire people who defy norms to be their authentic selves. So I'd find that very attractive

mark000h · Answer

Yes, guys like confident women and really like being asked out too.

MartianBuddy · Answer

Yep, I think it's hot. Plus if a woman I thought was attractive asked me out, it would probably make my month lol. Even if I didn't find them attractive it would make my week

Citizenkirk · Answer

I felt great when it happened. Didn't happen often, though.😟😘

awkward_author · Answer

Confidence is a huge turn on for me. That said, my reaction to being asked out would depend on whether or not I found them attractive.

AydenHazor · Answer

I appreciate when a woman asks me out. I'm completely oblivious to just about anything less than that myself.

Anonymous · Answer

Like I'm being set up. Usually when women ask you out it's because they're playing a trick on you. Or at least that's been my experience. If she asks me out I'm probably going to make her work for it. I'm not easy but I can be had.

SmokyOne · Answer

I'd love that, takes away the guesswork, anxiety and fear of rejection. Plus even if you aren't interested it's such a nice ego boost

maverick2022 · Answer

I actually like shy girls and am repelled by overconfident girls. If a shy girl asked me out it would mean a lot more so I'd feel flattered.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

That happening to me would be like if anime main characters didn’t have plot armor

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Confident in their femininity not confident acting like a man. Please do not ask men out on dates. Smh.

chaznthat · Answer

Love the signs of a confident woman, would be great if a lady asked me out 🙂

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

I think it should happen more. I would love for a woman to take the initiative.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Yep. Cause confident women don’t constantly seek validation from others. Aka thirst traps

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I like a girl asking me out and I would blush if she did so

Evan64 · Answer

I honestly prefer it. That's how my current relationship started- she asked me out first as opposed to the way it's "supposed" to be done.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Girls should ask out guys too, hate it when they're like "oh I just give hints and wait for him to ask"

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Fine with me. Ask away! I won't guarantee that I will say yes. But I will be polite and nice to you.

Anonymous · Answer

Same reason women like confident guys (it's an attractive quality). But it's not easy when you don't have it is it? lol

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

It means she doesn't play games like most women who waste time.

magiusX26 · Answer

if i was attracred to her already, i would be eleated.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yes, both my exes asked me out well they sorta just took it and I complied with them

CuteShyNerdy · Answer

I would feel awkward for a moment, almost as if I was just slapped. Since I love being slapped that's probably a good indication of a positive reaction. 😇

Juxtapose · Answer

I would melt and be putty before such initiation and confidence from a woman!

Cluelessguy95 · Answer

I would love it it would make things so much easier for both.

Mr_Peterson · Answer

Yes I do. I would feel flattered if they asked me out.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Absolutely! Confident women are great and I'd love being asked out.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I appreciate straight forward girls. I would welcome

Tellme · Answer

I would totally love that! Self confidence is sexy!

nawtee_me · Answer

If I wasn't busy I would go out with her. Are you asking me out? lol ;)

Pohjolan · Answer

Flattered but surprised. This would be first time I saw this happen.

htmndg183 · Answer

Love confident women. I'd feel great if she asks me out.

DevinAM · Answer

If girls asked me out, it would've made my life a lot easier.

Zygum · Answer

All people like confident woman, if some or not, then I kick her out

Anonymous · Answer

Oh yes. I love it when women ask me out 😍 what a great feeling that is.

Jonathon1 · Answer

I like it when girls ask me out. No guess work and irs definitely flattering.

dearevan_hansen · Answer

I'd be fecking delighted honestly, I struggle with making the first move.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd go out with her, if I was interested in her.

AdithyaR · Answer

That's very attractive

AimeeKyle · Answer

Totally fine / acceptable.

Wise4myage · Answer

Confidence is very sexy, and Id fine with that.

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