Shy guys, how would you react if the girl you like wants to meet you? Do shy guys want the girl to ask them to stay?

[Anonymous]

The shy guy and I are talking by messages. Our schedules are now different, so we can't meet during breaktime, for example.

I want to ask him if we can meet before our work starts. I don't know if he will refuse because he seems scared sometimes.

I remember he used to run away. I had to call his name to stop him. He looked happy, still nervous, but happy. Another question: do shy guys want the girl to ask them to stay?

[meye_naim]

First you need to be certain it's because they are shy and not because they aren't single and hiding the fact they aren't talking to you.
I am shy and actually do like it when a woman is more direct. So if sex is what you want, ask to meet for sex. Don't say, let's hangout sometime.

[___sam]

I would suggest getting to know each other a little bit more before sex.

[meye_naim]

I agree, more using that as an example. The point is to just say what you are feeling and try not to ask open ended questions.

[___sam]

Right

[Anonymous]

Its always positive if a girl ask you to stay. That way you make it clear that you enjoy his company and want to talk to him more :) Nothing wrong with that!