Yeah, that was not random. Lol. I know the point of this exercise, but you're likely to get more people answering what they believe the right answer is over an honest answer. I suppose the hope is to get some people to have a little introspection as they think on the answer, but it's interesting to see the poller's definition of an ugly guy. Ugly is in the eye of the beholder, so when it comes to a poll like this, you want to use a person that can be as close to objectively ugly as possible. A person that you believe most would find ugly so that the point will land. Not surprisingly, you'll see that it is features that denote poor health that can be considered universally as ugly. Makes sense looking at it from perspective of survival of the fittest. But back to the question at hand, I think it depends on the person who sees the kind man as physically unattractive... if the woman puts a lot of stock into how people look, than I suppose ugly will be creepy when being nice. However, if she is more into observing content of character, ugly is just superficial and a nice guy is a nice guy.
Yes but just read her reaction. If she likes/is comfortable with you, she will keep interacting with you. Give some effort and see if she gives it back. If she doesn't, then she's not interested and pushing it quickly gets to harassment. If she is comfortable or interested, she will keep interacting. Problem begins that men will sometimes become blind to the signals women give, because they overestimate a woman's sexual interest. Especially if they get a surge of testosterone when seeing an attractive person. However, blaming it all on biology is not fair. Keep your eyes open and put some clear boundaries. Also be aware of your position as someone who has more potential to be intimidating. Sure it takes some effort to be critical of one's behaviour, since it might not have been taught as a child, but making her feel comfortable will give you more chance in finding someone to stay with you and love you in the long run.
Yes if they are socially skilled. If he just came up and went "heh heh heh yoo R dee moss bootyful wooman iz dune evah seeeen" nope he will seem like a creep. Everyone knows a big fat fuck man or a little 5ft tall scrawny guy who is friends with plenty of women. They are friendly and funny and know how to make a woman feel comfortable.
Yes, it is very much possible for ugly guys to be genuinely nice people. But according to women, no, that is literally impossible! However, they will NEVER admit as such.
Yes it can be possible, but it also depends how you act. For me, I don't care how you look, if you act creepy I will feel weirded out. So one time I work, I was helping a customer, I was being nice and accepted all the compliments he was giving me. He called me pretty, I said thank you, said that my purple hair really suited my skin color, I said thank you again, I was honestly afraid of trying this tone of purple. He said that I smelled nice and liked the perfume. I said thank you again and told him it was actually lotion that he smells. But the part that made me feel creeped out was when I felt his breath on me ( he was behind me ) and I just knew he bent over and he literally smelled me. Right then I felt so uncomfortable and thought he was creepy so I pretended that the lamp wasn't working right and went towards the backroom of the store. And the guy looked like he can any girl.
You care about how people look. There is nothing wrong with that. Everyone does. Looks are what get your foot into the door; personality and status are what get you inside.
@Agagagagaga I honestly really don't care for looks. I'm nice towards everyone. My boyfriend of 4 years, he didn't show me how he looked for a whole year and I didn't care I just enjoyed talking to him and loving his personality, we had fun doing online dating, watching movies and playing video games. And I was okay with him not wanting to show he looked. My first boyfriend weighed 400 pounds and had cerebral palsey. The only thing I care about is age and if they like how I am without trying to change me.
It's possible, imagine I lost 2 euros on the floor and he bring them back to me then I would be happy he found them and not think of him as being creepy.
Don't let the women in this question fool you with their meaningless words. Look at their actual actions in the real world and you'll see the answer is 'no'
He looks like a hobo. I would be extremely cautious of him
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Anonymous
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A woman that decides to see a guy as creepy it really doesn't matter what he looks like, who he is, or what he says. She's already decided to see him as creepy.
Remember women will say yes. But theur actions show otherwise. a lot of women get creeped only because the guy is ugly
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Anonymous
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Yes, but there are some limits and this guy far beyond them.
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Anonymous
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Guys say no and girl say yes. Guys speak from experience and truth. Women (like all things) speak from lies to push what they want men to perceive as showing them in a better light.
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