Why aren't men nice to ugly girls?

[Akam93]

I always get treated meanly by guys mostly because I'm ugly but yet other girls who are pretty get treated nicer.

[Anonymous]

I'm never mean to ugly girls and I don't understand why some guys are mean to them. However obviously I'm even nicer to pretty girls. That's simply human nature

[Luckycharms12]

Don't put yourself down

[FreyaRed]

It's the human nature. If you don't have anything others want, you're useless and you don't deserve any general respect as human being. Imagine how mean they are if you have what they want and they realize there is no chance they will ever get it. Some people's flattery turns very quickly in invectives.

[Tyrael]

If that picture is you, then you're not ugly.

Fact of the matter is, guy or girl, if you're ugly it's gonna suck. There's certain standards of beauty that have come to be the norm and if you're not the norm, then you get treated differently. Simple as that really.

[DopeTurtle]

Hmm I don’t know if I’d say you’re “ugly” . I drop ugly for more personalities than physical looks because it just takes the right outfit, the right day and the right person for things to go completely right.


However to truly address why are men mean to ugly girls is the same reason why anyone is mean to anyone. It’s a sense of entitlement mixed with unresolved issues they need to get over. If I see someone I don’t find attractive, I just keep it pushing

[Reorx]

What are you talking about? Are you delusional? You're not ugly:( Come on a date with me sometime & I'll show you different:) We can watch the sunset together. The shy modest girl is the one I'm looking for but getting past that shell isn't easy.

[Spade_01]

It's not something that happens with one gender. It's the reality of both genders. People don't feel the need to be nice to people they don't find attractive and hence they don't care about.

[Pinay_ako]

It’s not you, it’s them. They’re just mean. Rise above them.

[Exterminatore]

I don’t give pretty ones any breaks. That’s all we need to do is pump up the ego of these stuck up bitches more.

[runnerboy]

Shame on them. We all are human beings with feelings. Life is short and we all should be kind to each other.

[abitcurious2022]

Anything/anyone attractive gets the most attention and gets treat better than something/someone that's ugly. I guess it's normal but never judge a book by it's cover.

[Jazzy54]

Because they’re jerks. Sounds like you’re around the wrong men.

[shades777]

Its a cruel world, hey a very small percentage like fat guys, there's someone for everyone

[Anonymous]

Guys just don't give pretty privilege to ugly girls. Why would they? They aren't pretty. You probably just get treated normal.

[Opinion Owner]

actually judging by your profile pic you probably get treated better than normal by guys.

[Akam93]

Yeah right.

[Unit1]

Pretty privilege. I'm not participating in it.

[Unit1]

Except of course getting a beautiful girlfriend but that's where my given pretty privilege ends.

[justabuddy]

Life is hard, so they find someone to take it out on. Those people usually can't getvaxdsye with an " ideal" partner either. Girls do it to guys as well. Just focus on you and constant improvement.

[coolbreeze]

Your not ugly. Don't be hard on yourself.

[sheikalana]

How mean are they?

[Fuentes]

Men will smash anything.

[mommymommymommy]

Why should we ever be mean to any girl?

[Iron_Man]

Your not be strong

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

The same is true for ugly men

[Vesuvius87]

The difference is they can compensate for it if he's wealthy but an unattractive woman can't, not even if she's rich. That sucks.

[Unit1]

@Vesuvius87 so does that mean that girls, who date not so good looking guys are gold diggers?

[Vesuvius87]

@Unit1
Not all of them though. There are good people out there that actually see beyond looks. I'm just merely pointing out the differences of an unattractive man and woman. If the unattractive man had no self-esteem and didn't care about landing gold diggers then he would use that advantage over him. But what advantage would an unattractive, wealth woman had since generally men wouldn't care about her money?
Though yeah that has to suck big time for the no so good looking man, to only be viewed as good just for the money and not as a person.

[Unit1]

@Vesuvius87 fair enough. There are male gold diggers too. These are called gigolos. But they're the type, who spend too much time playing videogames or browsing reddit or memes.
Either way it sucks to be in that position, where "love" is bought with money.

[Vesuvius87]

@Unit1
I actually know what being used for both sex and money is like. I'm not overly wealthy (just average higher-middle class) but my ex boyfriend still scammed me with $1,200 and I had to pay the service fee too so that makes it around $1,300 in total. He was after my grandma's property asking questions about her rent. Then he once insisted that I should soon find out about my father's living will and the money, asking what I would do if they got into an accident one day, etc. He used to become sweet as long as I was making sales with my bakery products, becoming obsessed with my goal of wanting a business. He basically wanted a businesswoman to mooch out of that also cooks and cleans for him. Horrible person. Yes, he was definitely a male gold digger, a narcissist and a sociopath. At some point I felt treated like an object, like a commodity, an accessory, not as a human. It got disgusted that nearly at the end, he even said he didn't care if I slept with another man but as long as I'm making good money.
I've questioned my own physical self worth and even though for several moment if I'm indeed the female equivalent of the mediocre looking man.

[Vesuvius87]

and I never got my money back since 2018.

[Unit1]

@Vesuvius87 yikes. What made you put up with all that for long enough?

[Vesuvius87]

@Unit1
He was different when he met and then years later he started changing. Then again, I never met the real person. It was a mask he put the whole time. Narcissists do that. They portray themselves as a decent person, lovebombed you with excessive ''I love you's'' and even future fake for too long until you fall for it and by the time you've realized what you got yourself into, they already drained you emotionally and wasted your years.

[Vesuvius87]

**when we met

[Unit1]

@Vesuvius87 that's a classic. Putting on a facade until no longer needed to reap the benefits. Snakes.

[Vesuvius87]

@Unit1
He went as far as even faking tears with my mother one time. He really made me believe that my mother was in the wrong for jumping to conclusions, for being so harsh and judgmental towards him, for treating him poorly, for mocking/laughing at him as he was crying.
He literally turned me against my own mother. Only to know those types can fake apologies and tears. They've been likely rehearsing that for years and other people too.

[Vesuvius87]

My mother told him in his face ''those are crocodile tears, you're a liar using my daughter, it's sad she's blind but I'm not. She'll find better once she comes to Peru,''
Her mom was right about him all along but nope, I'm single and childless. I didn't find better.