When a man is emotionally unavailable is he really emotionally unavailable or just emotionally unavailable to you?

[Anonymous]

Does he at least like you enough if he is honest and respect your boundaries...

[sensible27]

Think about you, are you sometimes emotionally unavailable to almost everyone?

[Asker]

I can be...

[In_Trance]

most likely just to you

[Asker]

Yeah... he says it’s not personal and that I shouldn’t feel any type of way. He said his focus is on his life right now

[In_Trance]

He's not interested. Move on

[Asker]

Okay lol is it my looks

[In_Trance]

I can't answer that; I don't know what you look like

[Asker]

I mean is that usually the case

[In_Trance]

no, not necessarily. He took an initial interest, which is based of aesthetics. It's most likely something else. Again, I can't say for sure; I don't know you and I don't know him. I can tell you investigating "why" at this point is of no value to you. Move on

[Asker]

Okay thanks