Is there something wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

Hi, i like this guy and he likes this girl because of her body, he even said so but she doesn't like him back. He knows i like him but he got mad at me and he said we weren't friends anymore. One time, one of his friends came to me and told me that my crush envied me. I'm confused, what does that mean? I've also been seeing the numbers 11:11 and 1:11 a lot nowadays and i know its not relevant but i really need some advice.

[Anonymous]

Why exactly did he get mad at you? I think this is something that has no potential to bloom into a relationship. As for him envying you. Maybe he thinks your smart, talented in whatever. I envy my brothers sometimes because they know construction, I don’t. It could mean a lot of things. I’m sure it has nothing to do w him having feelings for you in the way you’d like.

[Asker]

oh ok thats fine, im trying to move on if thats the case, thank you!

[Opinion Owner]

Have you tried talking to him about it?

[Asker]

no not really, he got mad at me when he found out that i like him and said that im not allowed to like anyone else and we had been really good friends for 5 years and now he doesn't talk to me anymore. he only stares.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok that makes no sense. He got mad when he found out you like him but also said you can’t like other men. Unless something g is not clear there in my understanding does he have mental issues? This makes no sense.

[Asker]

i'm trying to figure out why he said that. No, he doesn't have mental issues and he's not really a good person.

[Opinion Owner]

What does he do that makes him a bad person?

[Asker]

he's very inappropriate. he threatens a lot of people and talks bad about people behind their back. he fights people when he gets upset ( he has anger issues ). he doesn't do well in school either.

[Opinion Owner]

So what attracts you to him if you know he isn’t a good person. This is something I will never get. Women want men who treat them like shit, knock them up then leave them, cheat on them, then they want a man who will accept them w their kids. I don’t get it. Explain that please. I mean for me if I can see a girl is truly a bad person, psycho, I might try to bang her but that’s it.

[Asker]

i liked him before and he was way nicer back then. It depends who the person is and what they are doing wrong but i've known my crush for so long. A lot of people told me he liked me because he envied me but i saw that as he didn't like me at all and im trying to move on. What do you think?

[Opinion Owner]

I think all you can do is be there as a friend right now. I don’t know what he’s going through so he may have a lot on his plate right now to want a relationship. Maybe he feels it’s not best to put someone through that right now. Things can change. I’ve known women who I wasn’t attracted to but things ended up changing, especially w the ones who were always there for me. So long as what he’s doing doesn’t get you into trouble I think it’s fine. You sound like a nice girl. How long have you two known each other?

[Asker]

thank you. i've known him for 6 years.

[Opinion Owner]

I think you have a lot of time to find someone. You’re still very young, just live your life. Don’t worry about it so much as far as a relationship. You can’t make a person completely happy. People should never expect another person to come into their life to make them 100% happy. If they’re unhappy it’s because there’s reason in their life that they’re not happy w that they need to fix.

[Asker]

wow thank you so much for your help! :)

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome. Other problems you have? Lol just live your life. Trust me things get more complicated once you get married,, bills, kids, etc. It will come when it’s time. When I was younger I joined the military (Marines). Glad I did cause I got to travel a lot. Get out see what the world has to offer.

[GlassTop]

You are gonna get your heart broken. That’s what the 11:11 thing means. My girlfriend used to say the same crap all the time.

[Asker]

hi, thank you. i have a question, why did one of his friends tell me he envies me for no reason?

[GlassTop]

Maybe he likes you. Boys are simple creatures. They aren’t complicated at all. They usually mean exactly what they say. He may like you but doesn’t want to settle for you because he likes the other girl more. Maybe if things don’t work out with the other girl he will go for you as plan B. I had a similar situation except both girls like me but I didn’t like them. But I didn’t tell them I didn’t like them. I just said nice things that maybe they thought would get their hopes up. When I think back on it, I regret not getting with either girls because I was attractive. Instead I waited and found some other girl who was even less attractive than both of those girls, but she was nice.

[Asker]

wow and i thought boys were difficult lol. i'm not too sure if he likes me but he hasn't been doing anything bad to me these days and he stares at me a lot.

[GlassTop]

Yea he likes you. Just give him a look back, but look away and pretend to ignore him. He’ll probably be dreaming about you at night. Since he turned you down, he has to chase you.

[Asker]

thank you!! im just worried that he'll like the other girl more for her body over time.