LOL Why do ugly guys harass women?

[Anonymous]

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There is a reason that people who look like The Elephant Man will never be a runway model. It's because a collective understanding of the word "ugly" does exist. Based on this understanding of ugly... hideous... very unattractive.. I pose my question. Why are these unattractive guys targeting attractive women to sexually harass based on lookism?

[wheresmrcunnunglis]

Lmao! That picture made me cackle.

Probably due to them not having anything to lose by doing so. They have probably been told multiple times throughout their life that they're unattractive so it builds this immunity to rejection. Making it easier to hit on women and see it as, " well one of them has got to say yes!" and sometimes they're usually right. 💀

[Brokenheartedx]

99 percent of the worlds population will never be a runway model, whats your point? And what qualifies you to call others ugly?
Define harrassment, a man having courage to come up to you to chat to you? Because thats not harrassment thats what folk did before the Internet.

[TsAubreyKate]

A better question is why do women think they aren’t ugly never forget this “ you are always ugly to somebody” ion care how good looking you think you are you know when a bitch that looks way better than you come on the scene and a lot of y’all get humbled real fast and by the way a mans value isn’t defined by our looks like you girls

[Honesttguy]

What else they gonna do? Is prostitution legalized where u live? If no then there is your answer. Hungry wolf will hunt to eat. Simple why ask stupid questions?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

“Ugly” and “attractive” is subjective.
However, anyone of any attractiveness level can and do harass women.

[Asker]

So you are not denying that harassment is going on... You are just questioning whether or not the assailant is "ugly". Is that right?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I’m saying that literally anyone can harass women lol, it doesn’t matter what their looks are.
What others consider ugly, may be attractive to other people, and vice versa.

[Asker]

Tale as old as time
Song as old as rhyme
Beauty and the beast

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Have a good day.

[Asker]

Humans have not evolved socially beyond being a troop of monkeys. I expect nothing more from them.

[Asker]

What I was highlighting with my question was that unattractive men are ironically subjugating women to sexual harassment based upon the "appearance" of these women.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Yeah, and that’s simply stupid… Just because you find them unattractive lol.

[Asker]

So, is the legitimacy of the word "ugly" in question? Why is it still in our mainstream dictionaries if we all should be too woke to use it? Is absolutely everyone on the planet attractive, in your opinion? When is the last time you were examined by an optometrist? LOL... I mean... Societies rise and fall based on the appearance of human flesh and bone. You seem to be extremely naive or sumthin'.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Ma’am. I’m speaking in general terms. You asked a very general question regarding attractiveness and what you find ugly is simply debatable by people. That is all I am trying to say.
But, thanks for your speculation about me, I will no longer respond as I have nothing more to say besides going in the same circle we’ve been going in since the beginning.

[Asker]

The word ugly can be used subjectively, but, it has a collective meaning because we all view certain people as exemplifying that word. Therefore, your ugly may not be my ugly and my ugly may not be yours. However, whoever is stating that ugly exists is exactly right. Furthermore, there are reasons that people who look like The Elephant Man will never be a runway model. It's because a collective understanding of "ugly" does, in fact, exist.

[Tyrael]

It's only harassment if the guy isn't attractive. It's another one of women's double standards that they love so much.

[Asker]

LOOOOOOOOOOOOL

[Deathraider]

Anyone can harass anyone.

They shouldn’t, but it doesn’t matter how ugly they are. There are people that one might consider looks ugly, but they could be a nice person.

[Deathraider]

There are nice people and there are assholes. Simple as that.

[Asker]

You are correct. But, I am talking about a particular subsection of individuals, at the moment. Feel free to create your own post and to express your own thoughts on GAG.

[Juxtapose]

Says the anonymous, faceless coward who won't show her face.

[dustybiker]

incels harass woman/people. Real men treat everyone with respect. The “ugly” factor is irrelevant and subjective.

[Anonymous]

If they are good looking, it's flirting not harassing. Because ugly guys see those guys being mean to women and still getting with them, they do the same thing but to ugly women to match their level. They have no women anyways so they have nothing to lose

[Eileen753]

Nope i was harassed by a popular guy who all the girls wanted.

[Opinion Owner]

@Eileen753 He maybe thought he could do that because he could get the girls anyways and 95 percent of men never get to experience being wanted by a girl with minimum effort let alone being one all the girls wanted. Ugly guys who aren't smart might think all the girls wanted him because of the harassing and not because he was popular good looking so they follow what that guy does

[Eileen753]

I ain't interested in the fantastical whining. Please stop and leave me alone.

[Opinion Owner]

@Eileen753 I apologize didn't think it would come off as whining. I don't believe in that kind of attitude those stupid ugly guys have but it's what they tell me so it's more of a be careful of those guys kind of thing

[Realbanger87]

I don't know but that picture is funny af lololz

[Asker]

Indeed...

[AviatorTom]

All guys are horny, whether they're handsome, average or ugly.

[fonduegirl]

What about the insults they face after asking women out?

[fonduegirl]

Also, sleaziness doesn't directly depend on one's beauty. Attractive men harass too.

[joeldalton]

If your biggest complaint is that people want you to smile, you've got it pretty good.

[TurkishDİxon3419]

What is normal when a handsome person does it, why is it harassment when an "ugly" person does it?

[Asker]

BECAUSE it's a matter of sensory overload. An analogy would be that something smells a bit funky and is, of course, offensive versus something carrying the stench of a dead body in a trash bag left in the Miami sun for several weeks. Don't even try that devil's advocate shit on me. Why do you prefer pretty girls and not ugly girls to fuck?

[TurkishDİxon3419]

I'm not talking about people who neglect their self-care, why would a well-groomed but naturally ugly person become abusive? Also, I didn't defend what you said, I value loyalty.

[Asker]

"... why would a well-groomed but naturally ugly person become abusive?"

What kind of weird, non sequitur question is that? Are you well-groomed and ugly? You seem a bit offended by my post.

[Asker]

If you look like a monster, but you leave women alone, I've got no beef with you. Run along.

[TurkishDİxon3419]

I'm saying that if a handsome person tries to harass, you won't react that much, but why is it harassment when an ordinary person does it?

[Asker]

UGLY is not ORDINARY. You've lost the plot. Where have you been living? In a cave?

[TurkishDİxon3419]

A man who doesn't do his ugly self-care for you?

[Asker]

You act like I minted the word "ugly" with all of the social connotations and consequences that go along with it. You need to branch out and rent a billboard... get on the radio with your anti-ugly speeches. Good luck with that.

[Asker]

* a world

[TurkishDİxon3419]

I don't care you

[Asker]

Clearly.

[Anonymous]

maybe if an attractive man said the same thing as the ugly one you wouldn't' find it harassing. Why are people stupid?

[bannacookies]

The ugly ones bother the most because no one would want to date him so he harasses women instead out of desperation.

[Anonymous]

Probably for the same reason ugly and fat women harass guys. Because in their mind they're not harassing them. In her mind she thinks she's got a legitimate shot with him.

[Guanfei]

Let me guess, you think you're on the attractive side, don't you?

[MountAverage]

For the same reasons why good looking guys harrass women.

[Eileen753]

They do! A desired popular cute guy at work put the most effort into harassing me and pretending to be friendly that I've ever experienced. Not that this answers the question. Just wanted to chime in

[MountAverage]

@Eileen753 I hope you can somehow resolve the situation. If necessary report him.

[Eileen753]

I didn't bother. he's liked more than me and even was promoted. he's left now though.

[MountAverage]

@Eileen753 Aren't you worried he will harrass other women though?

[Anonymous]

Lookism sounds like such a woke word. Don’t worry, if they are harassing you, it’s only for sex. Most guys don’t like woke girls.

[Waldoe]

because they are lonely and they are trying too hard

[Anonymous]

Probably because the only guys who want to talk to you are unattractive. I doubt you'd feel the same way if an attractive guy did and said the same thing.

[Eileen753]

Wrongk

[TheMajesticKing777]

I think a lot of women don't know the definition of harassment

[Asker]

What's your definition of harassment? My definition is from Merriam-Webster.

[TheMajesticKing777]

to engage in a course of conduct directed at a specific person which causes substantial emotional distress to that person and serves no legitimate purpose is the real definition of harassment, some people assume they are being harassed when someone simply mentions their opinion, there's a difference, a major one

[Asker]

What's the source of your definition? Your personal opinion or, a reputable reference source?

[TheMajesticKing777]

Fuckin Google dummy 😂

[Asker]

Just because you imagine yourself to be Thanos, snapping his fingers, does not cause your reality to trump "what is". People who make up their own words and definitions IRL and who expect the rest of us to abide by them, have a mental disorder.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Aren't you doing the same bullshit by creating your own definition tho? That right there makes you a hypocrite

[TheMajesticKing777]

Don't expect anyone to accept your own made up definition, most of society follows a dictionary and the dictionary is factual. You are basically creating your own dictionary, you are delusional

[Asker]

This is the definition of "harass" derived from the Merriam-Webster website.
harass verb

ha·​rass \ hə-ˈras ; ˈher-əs, ˈha-rəs \
harassed; harassing; harasses

Definition of harass
transitive verb

1a: EXHAUST, FATIGUE
I have been harassed with the toil of verse
— William Wordsworth

b (1): to annoy persistently
was harassing his younger brother

(2): to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct
was being harassed by her classmates
claims that the police were unfairly harassing him

2: to worry and impede by repeated raids
harassed the enemy

[Asker]

"I" am referring to this form of harassment with this post:

(2): to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct

[Asker]

WHERE did you get YOUR definition of harassment? That is the question of the moment.

[TheMajesticKing777]

I searched up the one with my local laws for Florida, which is the definition in my state, if Google is unaccurate, it's not my fault, point is, that is what would get me locked up here in florida and charged with harassment, either that or Google just has false information 🤷🏽

[MCheetah]

Why are unlikeable cunts always calling guys ugly?

[Asker]

LOL... The word "likeable" and "nice" are sleeping pills and Mickeys folks try to shove into the mouths of people with opinions they disagree with: "Be nice and take it"... NOPE. LOOOOOL

Tell us all TODAY and RIGHT NOW that you have never in your life called a woman "ugly" and we will know without a doubt that you're completely full of shit.

[MCheetah]

Not to her face, no. Never once in my life.
Now you tell ME you've never in your life called a man "ugly" directly to his face just to make him feel bad and I will know without a doubt that you're completely full of it.

Anyway, "ugly" and "harass" are just the same exact words as "hot" and "flirt", only applied to guys women DON'T want to sleep with. The use of the word "harass" would never apply to men women actually find attractive. THAT is the sh*tty part, here. A guy must be a "creep" merely on the basis you find him unattractive.

[Flower7]

Because they’re desperate.

[Wise4myage]

Bitterness from being rejected.

[Asker]

They need to take a long walk on a short pier.

[AndrésC64]

Let's see your beauty.

[annabananna]

What is considered harassment to you?

[Slim57]

So attractive guys don't?

[tponderingundead]

because they have nothing better to do.

[scooogy]

Would you consider me as ugly? 👀

[skyeee_]

shush troller

[Still-alive]

Trolololololol

[Hangry06]

Great pic

[Pooppoobi]

retardation

[Asker]

Exactly.